I'm not at all attracted to men, and very, very attracted to women. The thought of kissing or having anal sex with a man disgusts me. (Not that I stand in judgment---I'm very pro-gay-rights).
However, I have always been aroused by seeing or touching another guy's dick and balls. Not his face or body, not his ass. Just the genitals.
I think it is understandable that you are aroused by other cock and balls. My view is, if you have lots of fun masturbating with your own cock then masturbating another cock is equally pleasurable. My wife was the first to blow my cock and for many years I wondered what it was like for her. So I was curious to try it and now really enjoy it.
My feelings exactly. I have only touched and explored one other mans parts, but it was great. Having a man touch me was extremely erotic, almost like an out of body experience, watching him do what I like to do to myself.
never committed to all the above, but REALLY love to try it out!!!! my fear is my wife might find out and find it all abit weird and not speak to me again.
IMO, it's as much cultural as psychological. In our western culture, certain things are frowned on if not taboo. One of them is exposing the genitalia. They are "forbidden fruits", as it were. Ergo, even the sight of them, let alone contact with them, arouses an interest based on seeing or doing something that is culturally verboten.
In those places where nudity is the norm, e.g., in African tribal areas, or in situations where naked people are common, such as in nudist/naturist resorts, the arousal factor is diminished or absent just because one is always surrounded by nudity in a great variety of body forms. The mystique is absent. No imagination is required.
Re physical contact or sexual activity with another man's penis or balls, that's just taking the defiance of the norms one step further. And if the man has an erection, it says, "The idea of your seeing me naked and touching my dick arouses me!" If the guy you're with is turned on by you, it's a compliment. And your own boner will tell him the same thing.
"IMO, it's as much cultural as psychological. In our western culture, certain things are frowned on if not taboo. One of them is exposing the genitalia. They are "forbidden fruits", as it were. Ergo, even the sight of them, let alone contact with them, arouses an interest based on seeing or doing something that is culturally verboten. "
That pretty much squares with my own theory about this subject. As kids we were taught that these parts are "private" and not to show them to others. So naturally, all of my friends and I showed each other the first chance we got. I think the real thrill was in doing something "naughty."
I guess I'm just perplexed to find that this desire has carried over into adulthood.
and i thought i was the only one! didn't know what i was into till i read your question, me too think like that, and that's why i like Glory Hole sucking can't see the other guy just touch and suck.
I only ever did it with one guy, a close friend and only cocksucking. I initiated it with great apprehension but as it turned out, he was curious also so it worked out well. It all started with my fondness for receiving blowjobs. Every woman that sucked my cock, seemed to enjoy it and they looked so sexy doing it. I figured there had to be something to it so I became interested in experimenting.
Although a good friend, he wasn't physically attractive to me overall but he had a nice cock. He reciprocated and apparently enjoyed it but we both got the most pleasure, when he was on the receiving end. I've always been fiercely hetero and am terminally homophobic, so I suppressed my curiosity for years. I assumed that as soon as I tried it, I'd find it disgusting and would be cured forever of the urge. Problem was, I loved it from the get-go and luckily, my friend was gracious enough to let me repeat the act on several future occasions.
To be honest, I didn't like being touched by him at all. It went from being repulsive to a complete turn-off and it became worse, as time went on. Eventually, almost all encounters became entirely one-way but still,I struggled with the homophobia.In an effort to combat it, I decided to go to the other extreme. I thought that since I was actually performing a traditionally female function, maybe "getting into the part" more could possibly make it more acceptable for me. Without the anonymity provided here, I'd never admit this but I actually snuck out some of my wife's things and dressed for the part, the next time.
I really felt weird, absolutely embarassed for even him to see me like that but I forced myself to go through with it. He was totally into it and I eventually became a bit more at ease with the get-up, especially when he requested that I do it every time. The next opportunity, I went for broke and made every effort to psych myself into the part. Apparently it worked 'coz he said (much later, not in the heat of the moment) that I performed magnificently, by far the best he'd ever had...and he's had lots of head, from lots of women. I managed to bring him off twice, in under 20 minutes and that was with a slight break between blowjobs. He also said the orgasms were the most intense he'd ever experienced.
When I was "playing the part", I wore pantyhose, heels and a short silk robe. He liked the feel of the pantyhose and often stroked my legs and ass, while I sucked him off. While dressed like that, it was more acceptable to me and I have to admit, at times it was exciting...as long as he didn't touch my cock. I've sucked him off hundreds of times that way and never really became comfortable with it but I love to suck cock and if that's what it takes to do a good job, then so be it. It might be different, with someone I actually found more physically attractive...I'd love to find out. I have no interest in kissing, being cuddly or anal sex but I'd probably be much more welcoming to male's advances, if there was an attraction.
I am straight but have an interest in looking at nice dicks and bodies, I don't wish to try sex with another man, but totally respect others choice to do so. I would perhaps consider mutual masturbation and I believe that you've never had a proper blow job until you get one from a man. My wife sucks and licks but won't go the whole way and let me cum in her mouth.I do get aroused by looking at men's bits in all shapes, sizes and arousal, that's why I like this site.
I cannot fancy a man at all, but on the occassions i've been presented with an erect cock in front of me i've had no problems in sucking it dry.
I once met up with a guy i met on-line for a mutual sucking session, However, when we met he wanted to chat for ages and by the time he was ready to get down to business, I just couldn't bring myself to do it.
I'm completely turned off by the thought of gay me and find the thought of gay fucking abhorent, but put a nice cock in my mouth and something happens to me that i can't explain - I become a complete cock and cum slut - i love it !!
There is so much sense spoken here. I am obsessed with the thought of sucking a cock and love looking at cocks online but when I'm out and about and near a man I have no interest. I woul dlove to touch and take a man in my mouth I'm convinced of that but don't know where to start looking
Cockwatcher, I agree 100% with you! I am totally obsessed with the thought of worshipping a cock orally but have no interest in another man. I would love to touch a man's balls and cock, play with them, lick them, suck them, taste the precum and swallow the cum.
im excatly the same, im not attracted to guys in the slightest but i often have fantasys about sucking off a guy, having one suck me off and sometimes even that im tied up and fucked by a guy!
thank god! i though i was the only 1, but guess im not...i love women and boobs and pussy but also like a penis and balls but hate men and any other part of them!
I did my share of playing,,,,and whacking off my mates during my teen school years,,,,,,,and have not had the opportunity to try it again.
That was over 40 years ago, and having been married now for 38 years,,,,I probably will never again experience the pleasures I had as a teenager,,,,,,,,,playing with and sucking dick.
But "bi" means you are attracted to the man, not just to what's between his legs. I'm repulsed by the thought of kissing a man, and I have no attraction to male faces or bodies. I think that's the important distinction here. Perhaps it would make more sense to come up with another term for this type of erotic tendency, since so many of us seem to share it, yet it doesn't fit into the categories of gay, straight, or bi.
I'm same...Have NO interest in kissing a guy or touching except for his dick. Love to suck guys dicks!
Only one guy has cum in my mouth but it was an intense experience, feeling that cum on my lips and feeling it on his shaft...M-M-M-M!
Would absolutely LOVE to suck a couple of guys at the same time and take their cum...
As far as a romantic relationship...YUCK!!!
I agree 100%. I love women and everything that comes with a woman, especially sexy arses. I get slightly aroused when seeing another man's dick and I like the comments from gay men as it's a bit of confidence booster for me.
In those places where nudity is the norm, e.g., in African tribal areas, or in situations where naked people are common, such as in nudist/naturist resorts, the arousal factor is diminished or absent just because one is always surrounded by nudity in a great variety of body forms. The mystique is absent. No imagination is required.
Re physical contact or sexual activity with another man's penis or balls, that's just taking the defiance of the norms one step further. And if the man has an erection, it says, "The idea of your seeing me naked and touching my dick arouses me!" If the guy you're with is turned on by you, it's a compliment. And your own boner will tell him the same thing.
Enjoy it.
That pretty much squares with my own theory about this subject. As kids we were taught that these parts are "private" and not to show them to others. So naturally, all of my friends and I showed each other the first chance we got. I think the real thrill was in doing something "naughty."
I guess I'm just perplexed to find that this desire has carried over into adulthood.
Although a good friend, he wasn't physically attractive to me overall but he had a nice cock. He reciprocated and apparently enjoyed it but we both got the most pleasure, when he was on the receiving end. I've always been fiercely hetero and am terminally homophobic, so I suppressed my curiosity for years. I assumed that as soon as I tried it, I'd find it disgusting and would be cured forever of the urge. Problem was, I loved it from the get-go and luckily, my friend was gracious enough to let me repeat the act on several future occasions.
To be honest, I didn't like being touched by him at all. It went from being repulsive to a complete turn-off and it became worse, as time went on. Eventually, almost all encounters became entirely one-way but still,I struggled with the homophobia.In an effort to combat it, I decided to go to the other extreme. I thought that since I was actually performing a traditionally female function, maybe "getting into the part" more could possibly make it more acceptable for me. Without the anonymity provided here, I'd never admit this but I actually snuck out some of my wife's things and dressed for the part, the next time.
I really felt weird, absolutely embarassed for even him to see me like that but I forced myself to go through with it. He was totally into it and I eventually became a bit more at ease with the get-up, especially when he requested that I do it every time. The next opportunity, I went for broke and made every effort to psych myself into the part. Apparently it worked 'coz he said (much later, not in the heat of the moment) that I performed magnificently, by far the best he'd ever had...and he's had lots of head, from lots of women. I managed to bring him off twice, in under 20 minutes and that was with a slight break between blowjobs. He also said the orgasms were the most intense he'd ever experienced.
When I was "playing the part", I wore pantyhose, heels and a short silk robe. He liked the feel of the pantyhose and often stroked my legs and ass, while I sucked him off. While dressed like that, it was more acceptable to me and I have to admit, at times it was exciting...as long as he didn't touch my cock. I've sucked him off hundreds of times that way and never really became comfortable with it but I love to suck cock and if that's what it takes to do a good job, then so be it. It might be different, with someone I actually found more physically attractive...I'd love to find out. I have no interest in kissing, being cuddly or anal sex but I'd probably be much more welcoming to male's advances, if there was an attraction.
I once met up with a guy i met on-line for a mutual sucking session, However, when we met he wanted to chat for ages and by the time he was ready to get down to business, I just couldn't bring myself to do it.
I'm completely turned off by the thought of gay me and find the thought of gay fucking abhorent, but put a nice cock in my mouth and something happens to me that i can't explain - I become a complete cock and cum slut - i love it !!
firstly there will be hard cocks on display, so no need to consider anything else about the guy other than his cock.
secondly, you know that everyone there is after cock
thirdly, the chance of sucking a number of cocks in the same visit sounds just tooooo fantastic for words !
That was over 40 years ago, and having been married now for 38 years,,,,I probably will never again experience the pleasures I had as a teenager,,,,,,,,,playing with and sucking dick.
Still,,,,a bloke can think about it
so far what ever you said .. seems like you were reading my mind... i feel 100% same as you...
Sort of fulfills psychological need to appreciate oneself and oneself's
Only one guy has cum in my mouth but it was an intense experience, feeling that cum on my lips and feeling it on his shaft...M-M-M-M!
Would absolutely LOVE to suck a couple of guys at the same time and take their cum...
As far as a romantic relationship...YUCK!!!
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