How to hook up?

By rsmyth6969 at 24,Jun,09 07:24 Hide

Well?

By laqwa at 24,Jun,09 15:18 Hide

wer r u ?

By rsmyth6969 at 24,Jun,09 21:37 Hide

pacific northwest

By rsmyth6969 at 06,Jul,09 20:45 Hide

No one have any suggestions?

By topspy at 07,Jul,09 02:49 Hide

I dunno....one could just as easily wind-up with a stalker, ax murderer, disease spreader and such be it with a male or a female....and you can find them online, or in bars, at church, at work, at the grocery store, at the library, in the car next to yours at the traffic light, wherever.

I have no idea as I'm not into men....but I would imagine that you could try to seek out where other like-minded men hangout in your vicinity or online, and then "put it out there" that you are looking to meet someone. Get to know the candidates as much as possible and try to be as safe as possible too. It is all a crap shoot, no matter where or how you meet people, but there are common sense things you can do to try to maximize the chances for a positive outcome.

I'm not trying to "preach" anything here, as we're all adults (hopefully most of us) and we all have our own individual personal problems and issues and background stories....but have you discussed "this" with your wife? If not, are you ready to bear the weight of guilt that might be with you afterwards??

Anyway, good luck and be careful.

By rsmyth6969 at 07,Jul,09 08:28 Hide

Thanks Topsy!

By philosrod at 07,Jul,09 21:24 Hide

Meat ya halfway ?

By wildwest1859 at 10,Jul,09 17:42 Hide

I think that is the most difficult item being bi.Most would not admit to that openly.There may be exclusive sites dedicated to this topic.I'm not sure.
Good luck to all of you with your quests.especially if you are married.

By [deleted member] at 13,Jul,09 11:21 Hide

I'm in the same situation as you - So far I haven't tried it but i've fantasised about it for years.

By sevenplus at 01,Aug,09 00:34 Hide

Could try "Squirt". Lots of guys there trying to "Hook up".

By algodown at 07,Nov,09 00:22 Hide

For my first time, I finally got the nerve to suggest it to a friend of mine and luckily, he was very receptive to the idea. Nowadays, I'm pretty much in the same boat as you. I need a playmate but have to be very discreet and safe. What's worse, I'm in a rural and very redneck area so I'd have to know for sure a guy would be receptive, before I'd try anything. It's the pits.

By smallfry4 at 07,Nov,09 11:59 Hide

Try an online gay dating site. I joined outpersonals.com and meet several great men in my area. You can also try a bath house if there are any near you.

By jackinmd at 07,Nov,09 12:11 Hide

Look on craigslist, men seeking men for your area.

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