Corporal punishment was part of school life in the 1960s. I was mostly a well-behaved pupil but was caned a couple of times for minor rule-breaking. It hurt but there was also a certain pleasure and on the second occasion I got an erection.
As I grew older I had a fantasy about being caned on by bare ass. Many years later, at my favourite cruising spot, I met a guy and we indulged in some mutual wanking.
After several meetings he invited me back to his flat after telling me that he enjoyed domination. I was curious and willing to try something for the first time.
At his flat he ordered me to strip naked and told me to bend over. He slapped my backside with his hand several times and I became very hard.
After a while he went to a cupboard and retrieved some handcuffs, a blindfold and a cane. He cuffed me at the front, blindfolded me and ordered me to bend over. He struck me six times with the cane, with more **** each time, but the pain was too much.
I begged him to stop, which he did. He was not really interested in doing anything else so I dressed and quickly left. I must say that it ended my fantasy of indulging in sado-masochism for good.