when i see this recent picture of my own stiffy i ultimately think to myself "nice picture, great body but the fully erected penis looks so small!"
Especially comparing with many erected dicks on the syd frontpage it really looks tiny and it appears strange to the eye that it's not much longer on the picture. It kind of makes me feel unlucky and sad that on that big blue sky there's such a visual gap of nonexistent length and girth...
What do you think, with which mindset should or could i get over this shortcoming to think it should look so much longer? How can i feel more confident when comparing myself with much bigger guys? on which reasons can i build better self-esteem upon as a very sexual guy?
As others have said you're confident with your body and should be just as confident in your beautiful cock!
ENJOY IT!
I've had these thoughts myself, even though I am average in length and a little more in girth, seeing my shrunken cock when I look down used to get me down. I've spent enough time in gym changing rooms (when people used to shower together) to know that I am far from alone. I also enjoy going to nudist clubs and beaches where you see all shapes and sizes... mostly small and average I should add. It's a great environment to be in, there's no judgement, just enjoy the sunshine and be naked.
So I've learned to by happy and confident, especially while naked. Strange perhaps, but I often feel more confident talking to women while naked! Perhaps it's because I'm more relaxed.
From my bisexual perspective, the bigger the better provided it is stiff and hard. Above about 115-120 cm, the blood pressure required to achieve a standing erection (think weight and moment arm) is beyond human physiology and the result is almost invariably droopy and frequently needs manual assistance if used for penetration.
Actually, with guys and ladies, both seem to find me and my body to be attractive and once my cock is out & hard nobody has ever rejected to play with it hehe... Thankfully, in addition to that i have found a great wife who adores my body and loves my penis exactly the way it is. Even that i am cut was her preferred condition - and i had no choice over that when i was a 4yo boy o.
Thank you for your charming penis appraisal - you just made me happy about my dick
All men should be able to say such strong and convincing words like you just did. It is sad that humans can be so brutal sometimes and make fun of other people's body parts - even though nobody can chose them. Keep it "coming" Sir!
I honestly applaud you for going through what you’ve been through and still radiating confidence. That’s pretty much what i see when i see your pics and read your story - a sexually-confident guy who has dealt with adversity; and has a cooler dick than most of us.
Chin up, brother - never lose that confidence and realise being good sexually is skill-based (((: 👍👍👍🤝🥃
if feels really flattering and warm when someone who is even hung himself is writing with such a great perspective for my special situation. Especially the imagination of a vagina of 14cm and g-SPot at 6-7 cm helps a lot to understand that you really don't need a longer penis even though it is so desirable by society and media.
Thank you very much! Your words are encouraging and they bring me to a level of understanding that no matter what size, we all have cocks that eventually get hard and do their jobs - even when your super X-large or micro-tiny - the ultimate goal is your next fat cumshot and that's all that matters! In such perspective and when taking care of the climax of your partners as well (be it by your cock or hands, tongue etc.), size becomes entirely irrelevant!
Let's say you watch 2 couples having sex at the same time. both have a great time and a orgasmic ending - was it better for couple B as Mr. B had a BC? I guess no, both guys had some great orgasms and a great time fucking around.
It is what it is, nobody can change it and nobody had the power to even chose it - so better use it like there's no tomorrow
A cock is a cock no matter what size: as long as it get's hard, you have some stamina and use your passion you are doing the right thing
When we look around on this site we do see many well hung fit guys, being not that type of man we feel a little down.
I'm not fit, not even young anymore and certainly not well hung. But when i visit the sauna i do get atttention from guys who are fit and well hung even younger sometimes. They have a choice there still some choose to have fun with me.
I still could do with a bigger dick but i can be sexually attractive to others even when in my head i am not. Some guys tell i am just the type they are looking for the type they are are attrackted to.
So be sure our dick may not be standing out for the obvous reason, he is still standing out for some, even if we don't think so ourselves.
Concentrate less on what you think, more on the fact that people are sexually attracted to you, they go for your smaller dick because they want to!
Concentrate less on what you think, more on the fact that people are sexually attracted to you, they go for your smaller dick because they want to!
the hottest thing about this very wise sentence is to acknowledge that yes, i don't have a large or extra large penis, yes i have a smaller and thinner penis than what i would have wished for - but i have a penis that is catching some sexual attraction of others and they want it!
You created an amazing penis size confidence booster, thank you man!
People are told to to judge each other for no reason or their body including dicks. Instead we should look at each other naked as equals. That's what people never learn or experience. You can't experience it unless your around people like that. I found out were those people are. They are nudists.
Most people don't want to be seen as equal. So they make the other people feel less about themselves to make them feel better. People judge each other and bodies for no reason.
You have a great penis and balls. I would hope you feel comfortable taking your clothes off around me or any guy. We guys can handle seeing each other naked and relaxed and see each other penis. That's the fun part, seeing each other naked and see how our dicks look
i totally experienced this as well, when you are with nudists, nobody cares how you look and how large or tiny the penis and balls are. Everybody gets the same respect and is taken as the human being he is - which is a very fantastic approach.
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