I'm sure some of you will blast me for this, but hey, that's what it's all about, so here goes...
I feel some disappointment when I see a clean-shaven penis. Razoring off every trace of pubic hair is more popular in Europe than it is in the USA, Canada, etc. Check out the majority of German* men on these pages. Gorgeous but bush-less is certainly not a deal-breaker for me, I love pretty cocks too much, but often they look like 11 year-olds with oversized dicks swinging sort of grotesquely misplaced.
When a guy just mows over this asset, I miss out on seeing a big chunk of his personal sex appeal.
Razoring oneself bald seems too clinically sanitized, processed and neutered for that one private part of us oh-so-civilized, sprayed and perfumed men that I want to behold as audacious animal sex.
When it's all tucked away, we are Sunday-best "housebroken", but when it's let out, it's all there in its full obscene glory to irresistibly grab and unsettle our cool.
Pubic hair shouts for its owner, "LOOK! I have this BIG HOT THING DOWN HERE and it is not well-behaved and wants what it wants all the time!
I'm not saying that the odd scragglers shouldn't be trimmed and hairs shouldn't be trimmed back enough from the shaft so much that they can't be kept out of an eager cocksucker's mouth. But I don't buy the idea that trimming completely makes a guy's dick look bigger. I think that's a sorry myth.
*Curiously, the correct anatomical name for pubic hair in German is "Schamhaar" which translates literally as "Shame-hair". Enough to make anyone queasy and want it gone, I guess.
And it also sorta makes my point. |
...btw, on you, I seem to like exactly what your wife likes
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...but like a flower, I'd prefer it didn't have its petals plucked off.
I just recently had sex with a guy who insisted that he trim my pubic hair back, especially around the shaft.
He wanted to suck me more, but said it was getting in the way for him.
So, what could I do? Of course I let him trim me!
– The experience gave me a slightly different take on my own pubic hair.. how much of it.. and the wisdom in considering my sex partner's pleasure as well as my own.
I can only hope this shaving obsession is a fleeting fad. Now that everyone is showing off and making themselves into instant fashion models on social media, new fads go around like wildfire.
I just hope it doesn't mean that everyone is becoming even more obsessed with "germ-free clinical cleanliness". Digital sex is bad enough. No strange smells, no sweat, no bothersome hairs, no sticky mess, but no real human touch either.
also a lot of guys I know are not shaved. Unfortunately they are not members of SYD. My opinion is that a man must be hairy, I love hairy chests, arms and legs and I have never shaved my arms, legs, chest or belly. Only my pubic hair was trimmed for some times, but that was more than a year ago. I'm currently very hairy
So for these reasons, I shave my shaft, lightly trim the bush, and leave my balls hairy.
I agree 100% about moderate, natural trimming to subtly improve visual impact. Scragglers need regular pruning. If your bush is so full that it hides must of your pretty shaft, I say go ahead and prune it "naturally". Keep it proportional. Just don't mow yourself bald thinking it'll make you look bigger. I don't think that trick even works.
A curly bush behaves better, but really straight hairs heading out along your shaft or down your thighs, well, time for "shaping" with scissors. My point is just to respect that your bush is a part of your sex "attractant". In fact, secondary hair follicles produce pheromone oils that your primary hair doesn't and your pubes wick them off into the air. Subtly, but powerfully.
Some guys give themselves a Hitler mustache or whatever. That can look cool and kinda add a bad-boy "attitude" on some younger dudes. It still shows that he appreciates that his pubes are part of his total SEX HEAT.
Balls, for me at least, look good clean shaven –and inviting for a friendly tongue. Reason being, many of us only grow a few unruly scragglers down there that are better just gone –and not in your partner's mouth. If yours are neat and pretty –and not mostly invisible wild hairs, keep 'em!
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