The Cambridge Dictionary defines a slut thusly.
slut
noun
SEXUALLY ACTIVE WOMAN
slang disapproving
a woman who has sexual relationships with a lot of men without any emotional involvement
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Wow I think that's woefully lacking in a LOT of ways..
First off, it's limiting the term to only women... Can't us guys be sluts as well?
I KNOW I'm one...
Second, does it ALWAYS mean you HAVE to have sex? Can't you just ACT like a slut, feel like a slut without actually having all that sex?
Third, what about that without emotional involvement business? I know very few people who can have sex with other people without having SOME kind of emotional involvement..
OK, you're thoughts on this PRESSING matter? |
... If someone were to say that all three of those were "slutty behaviour" on my part, then I'm not sure I would disagree.
"A slut is any woman who has sex with more than one man, but not with you."
And I am a male mental slut....thinking of it when I cannot be enjoying it.
There is nothing hotter than a woman who likes sex and talks with you about it, making it even better!
As for me, I have to have some sort of a mental connection with anyone I get naked with. A pure conqueror I never wanted to be. The bittersweet of it is when you genuinely like someone--not BS romantic stuff-- but friendly affection and the shared enjoyment of sex, and you are aware that it must all remain hidden, well that is frustrating of course. Hope that makes sense.
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