As I mentioned in my Photo Blog I am now a married gay man who leads a really conventional life with his husband. We have a house, grass to cut, bills to pay, laundry to do, two cars, two cats and do most of the things any straight couple would do. Except we go to the symphony, the opera and the ballet instead of baseball, football and basketball games, but you get the idea.

So where do I get the ideas for my frequent debauched and lewd comments on members photographs and on the Forum? Mostly they are memories of things I did when I was younger and a few are pure fantasy. I ain't saying which. When I was young I had a very active and promiscuous sex life, having had sex with probably two or three thousand men (and three women).

Now that I've reached my mature years I've settled down quite a bit. At sixty-eight I'm not sure how much longer I can get away with saying I'm middle-aged, but I'm not quite ready to call myself old or elderly. So I'll settle for mature.

And for any young bucks who might be reading this, it's not the end of the world to be this old. People half or even only a third of my age, men and women both, still often flirt with me, so I suppose if I were so inclined I could still be a player.