Help For a Sexless Marriage

By Luvanicecock [Ignore] 07,Jul,24 10:28

I was there. I dove deep into my bi side, having sex with many men.
I'm in a new relationship, and she knows I enjoy sucking cock. She says it's okay as long as I tell her about it first.
That's great, but also confusing. I love to suck cock, and if I were anywhere close to you I'd hope we could be suck buddies.
Good luck finding a playmate to enjoy some relief with.

By JaySway [Ignore] 07,Jul,24 14:04⤴

Thank you so much. I can't tell you how much I appreciate your comment. You just made my day. Yes, I'm sure that we could be great friends in that way. I met my suck buddy on fetlife.com and had a great time while it lasted. My only regret is that I can't tell my wife about me

By Luvanicecock [Ignore] 09,Jul,24 09:40⤴

I understand. Having a lady friend that knows all of my stuff has been so amazing. I knew I had to be honest if I was going to have another relationship, but didn't expect anyone to actually accept me when they heard all of my 'stuff'.

By oldfartwatching [Ignore] 02,Jul,24 21:58

Been married 42 years with the last 8 sexless. She was never much for sucking but was a great fuck. Never expected to be sexless. I want to tell her I play with cocks just to get some relief but not sure how to go about it. If you where closer would love to meet and chat and who knows what

By JaySway [Ignore] 02,Jul,24 23:13⤴

Same here. And yeah, I'd love to tell her about guys too, but can't bring myself to do it.

By oldgray69 [Ignore] 05,Jul,24 13:41⤴

We feel that way but keep it to our self. I would say 99% of the time the reaction would not be a positive reaction.

By oldgray69 [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 14:31

I think you are part of a almost silent majority. I turned back to playing with men. I don't consider it cheating since it is not love but just some good cock sucking. Men like sex and all we need is a place and a partner. I been married over 40 years, last 10+ sexless. I amuse myself. Got good at it. I now live in a small town and my wife belongs to every club and social group and is well known. So I am known as Her husband. Most of the groups are to do with churches and their activities. I don't attend. It is a delemer that we have to live with

By JaySway [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 14:37⤴

So how do you find relief? I mean where do you find guys? And how far do you go with them? Hand job? Blow job? Give or receive? Ass fucking?

By oldgray69 [Ignore] 05,Jul,24 13:31⤴

Finding people is easy Silverdaddies.com Gives you a pile of men. Finding time for them, scheduling, and sneaking around is the hard part. Have done nothing in this town. Been here going on 6 years. Hooking up is more of a hassle than it is worth. Just to many moving parts. I have some good toys that help a lot. Wife gone for a while here and there.

If I had a "friend" sucking, swallowing and playing would be my go to bag of tricks

the old saying. I would fuck a snake if someone would hold his head

By growernotashower [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 08:01

Never had a woman as interested in my penis as I am. Isn’t that normal. Difficult finding a her on the same page re sex.

By JaySway [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 10:14⤴

Yup, exactly

By nekekal [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 14:12⤴

That is normal I think. Women don't really have much interest in fucking.

By nekekal [Ignore] 02,Jul,24 19:07

I am the same situation. But too far away. The wife hates to fuck, and hates my cock. She has not touched it for years. I masturbate all the time, i don't really care if she sees me or not. It disgusts her a bit I think.

Some mutual cock play would be a welcome relief, but we are just too far away.

i don't suck but play is fun.

I don't have any guilt. Using something that no one else is interested in is not cheating. I would put my cock into anyone interested at the drop of a hat.

By JaySway [Ignore] 02,Jul,24 19:20⤴

I totally get it. It just really sucks, but not in a good way.

By nekekal [Ignore] 02,Jul,24 20:54⤴

I dream of sucking in a good way. Or even a strange hand on my cock. Or playing with a cock not mine to see how it responds.

By JaySway [Ignore] 02,Jul,24 21:02⤴

I've done it and loved it

By JaySway [Ignore] 02,Jul,24 20:52⤴

How long married and how long no sex?
24 years for me and very little sex for most of it and probably none last 20

By nekekal [Ignore] 02,Jul,24 21:14⤴

Been married 50 years. She last let me fuck her February 2000.

At that point she was kind of on a once a month schedule.

She fucked like a rabbit before we got married. But right after the ceremony there was none. No fucking, no sucking. Welcome to married life. She settled into a once a week fuck, if she wasn't doing anything else. Usually Sunday morning after breakfast.

For the record, she was a terrible fuck. Just layed there with her legs open. Let me put my cock into her cunt for a few strokes. One time she ask me if I was going to finish or be there all night. I pulled out and went into another room to masturbate.

By JaySway [Ignore] 02,Jul,24 23:12⤴

Omg, but I have time say that's very similar to me. I didn't even get any on our wedding night. Like you, before marriage was nice. But then nothing. Fucking weird. Not even a hand job. Have you ever stepped out? I have with guys occasionally but no other women

By nekekal [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 13:16⤴

I begged for hand jobs, but she seemed to hate to touch my cock and acted like cum was an acid. She was afraid to get any on her. I think she initially let me fuck her because she didn't need to touch my cock or any cum. Just stick in in her, cum quickly, pull it out and she could run to the bathroom and clean up.

I have cum to realize that women are very transactional. Before getting married, she knew that she had to fuck. If not she was never getting married.

But afterwards, the hook was set. The promise of getting to fuck her was enough for a long time. Then she decided that she didn't need to do that either.

For a while I convinced her that sucking on my cock was as good as fucking it. She hated to suck my cock. She had to touch it and would only put the tip of the head in her mouth but it was better than nothing for me and better than getting fucmed for her.

By nekekal [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 13:20⤴

That was fucked for her.

I was always interested in someone else. But my opportunities were limited. I worked in a mostly male job. And none of them seemed interested. I looked for whores. Seemed a perfect solution. Whenever I heard of a place where there were any I would drive that way going home from work, but never saw any that I could identify.

By JaySway [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 13:24⤴

Omg, your story is so similar to me. She stopped everything. Even hand jobs. It got to the point that I don't even like sleeping with her bc it's too frustrating. Every time I turned over she moved away bc she thought I was starting up. Do you sleep together still? We really had great sex until the year before we got married. Then it all just stopped. Even when we were having stuff she would not swallow my cum after bj. She just spit it out and wiped it off.

By nekekal [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 13:33⤴

here, she would never let me cum in her mouth. She sucked the tip and pumped the shaft and then when I was going to cum, she got as far away from me as possible and kind of bent my cock so the cum could not hit her. Very painful. I ask her to stop doing it, but she kept doing it, so I quit asking her to suck it. That might have been her plan.

We do sleep together. I ask her not too several years ago. It is easier and more convenient to masturbate if she is not there. Put on some porn and enjoy my cock. I think she knows that and figured that I didn't need it.

By JaySway [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 13:37⤴

Wait. I'm not sure I understand. Do you sleep together? And if so, how do you handle it?

By nekekal [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 13:42⤴

We do sleep together. I lay there and play with my cock. She lays there and ignores me.

By JaySway [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 13:48⤴

Oh, ok. Now I understand. I couldn't do that

By nekekal [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 14:11⤴

It was much better when we were sleeping separate. There were a few occasions that we were separated.

why could you not do that?

By tb1 [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 06:24

My wife quit fucking 25 years ago. Finally I joined a gay guy dating site. I chatted with guys there and finally one guy convinced me to meet him, I did, we hit it off and I went to his house for some

which progressed to mutual

I did not feel guilty at all. My wife persuaded and begged me to marry her. She’d fuck like a mink and suck me too. Finally I gave in and sex got less and less over the years. I found myself

every other day.
I won’t fuck a woman, they talk too much. I like the discretion that men exhibit.

By JaySway [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 10:13⤴

I totally agree. And now I love a cock in my mouth. But what I really want is to be fucked in the ass

By nekekal [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 13:37⤴

And I think women always have an agenda. They want something. The few opportunities that I have had to fuck a woman, it was pretty obvious that they wanted something.

By tb1 [Ignore] 03,Jul,24 13:59⤴

Agree 100%

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