This has been on my mind for quite some time... (I've made a previous blog about it briefly, but I'd like to open up & yap a little more)
Now that it's the New Year, I'm hoping to get better at striking conversations, replying to messages & keeping a better flow going when it comes to chatting with everyone on the site! 💪🏻
I'll be very honest and say that I've gotten more comfortable (+confident) with my body so I might not come across so 'shy', but I'm still painfully shy+awkward when it comes to expressing myself while chatting/replying to messages (especially with the dirty talk) 🥹
When it comes to replying to them, you might think I would've gotten better at it being on the site for ~4 years... but here I am, still struggling to find the right response and worrying about coming across too awkward or cold(?)
It's pretty embarrassing to admit but I worry if my replies/attempts to dirty talk come off too dry. (I promise I don't mean to come off as uninterested! Or weird 😭 I just don't know what to say so I end up... Emoting a lot of the times 🥹
Does this have to do with the lack of experience (I've only been in a relationship once and it never went as far as to have sex..) or am I being too reserved?
I would love to hear your thoughts + any tips! I always appreciate everyone for being so nice, patient and supportive ❤️ Thank you for taking the time to read this
Above all, be polite. So many folks here just stop with a chat right in the middle without another word. In my view it's just rude (and not a good rude haha).
And have fun 😘
Have fun.
As far as not being comfortable with sex talk, it is probably that you have not fucked anyone. It is difficult to talk dirty or otherwise if you have not really handled, sucked or fucked a cock. You either need to watch a lot of porn, read a lot, or go fuck some guys. Then you will be comfortable talking about cocks, cunts,tits and asses.
And don't worry about replying. Very few people reply.
I love your pics and vids. I just got caught up on some of them. I can't believe you're reserved at all.
It is always nice when a reply comes but not always necessary. Most men are here to look at nice naked women who they can enjoy during masturbation, women too.
Use the comments to build your confidence and learn about what you might want from a relationship. Some comments may be very nice whilst others may seem offensive best not to over react. Some like to be talked to, even ask to be spoken to like a whore. If there are some particularly offensive ones then simply PM the sender and ask them to tone them down.
Remember even the sexiest most beautiful women, like yourself, need some confirmation of their beauty.
One word of warning there are some on here who are manipulative, do not comply with them in any way just ignore them, most do. There is a proper verification process for those that wish to do that. Also most female profiles are men illegally showing their partners pics without permission. Protect yourself and enjoy doing what you do best, you always rock me and I never want that to stop.
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