I've started scanning through the forum most times I come to this site. Some of the comments or questions are quite commonplace while others are quite interesting. I sometimes feel inclined to participate and make a comment, if what I have to say is relatively brief. I've found though that if I have a more lengthy comment, it can sometimes make for an interesting blog. I saw a question posed a little while back, asking if people were opposed or in favour of watching their partner with someone strange and if they felt turned on by it. I mulled over this question and realized that it depended on the situation. First of all, I would never ask my partner to participate in something unless they wanted to without feeling pressured. I have been in this situation where my girlfriend and I had an adventure with another person...in one case another girl, but most often with another guy. When it's happened, it's always been somebody I know such as a friend who we could trust to be discrete about it and someone whose lifestyle meant that they'd be in good health and safe to have an intimate encounter with. When it happened, it was situations that I didn't feel any particular jealousy about, and I generally felt happy that I'd presented my girlfriend or wife with an opportunity to have a no-strings-attached sex adventure that normally wouldn't be available to people in a closed relationship. The only sort of condition I put on it was that it be a shared experience where I was involved as well. When someone we'd had a shared adventure with tried to do an end run around me and have something happen with her without me being involved, it was the last time that person ever was invited to participate. I've never asked any lady I was involved with to do something with a stranger. The reasons being partly that I couldn't trust that person to keep it to themselves afterwards and not feel inclined to share it with someone else, and partly that it was just such an unknown - Not knowing what to expect from somebody I didn't know, etc. I sometimes look at porn where cuckold is a popular scenario. I don't often envision myself getting a lot of satisfaction from watching my lady being fucked by someone else. Strangely, I do feel really turned on by the idea of being there when it's over and doing creampie cleanup. Go figure. I think the one porno scene that really appeals to me is watching women in gloryholes, sucking strange cocks. Maybe it's due to the fact that it's anonymous, where the guy being sucked doesn't know who the woman is, or the thought that my lady will never know who the cock she's sucking belongs too. It feels very non-threatening to my relationship with her, and for some reason, watching a girl I love doing this very intimate thing with someone else really gets me hot. I don't ever imagine it's something that'll happen in real life - partly because gloryholes don't seem to be common in any place I'd ever find myself, and, from a really practical standpoint, I wouldn't want to expose someone I really cared about to any of the health risks that might be part of doing stuff like that. But, it's an intriguing fantasy. And, I guess one of the things I've learned about myself is that if I'm with someone who I love and feel very secure in my relationship, there's nothing really threatening about a scene with another person.