| I posted this exact question on yahoo:-
Is it strange to just what to give gay sex a go?
First of all, I'm 32 and straight but I just really want to try it with a guy just to see if it's fun. I watch a lot of gay porn and would really like to act out some of the things they do. I've been emailing this guy for a while now with a view to meeting up and trying it out.
I'd really like to do it but once it's done I can never go back and change it. Should I do it or is it something I will regret? |
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BUMP! 😀
Since writing this thread I have now had gay meetups with two different guys. I love it and would do it again. I don't know why I was worried and I don't regret it one bit. And you were right; it certainly doesn't change who you are one bit. You feel fulfilled because you have filled that gap!
You might want to pull up my Forum post "Things Every Man Should Do at Least Once" and have a look. An easy way to do this is to click on "other posts" next to my name.
I had the same feeling when a GF suggested role-playing, meaning her with a strap-on, fucking me.
The only thing that changed, was that I relaxed, and stopped believing the nonsense I was told, growing up!
'Playing' with a lady, and her toy, and liking it isn't going to 'make you gay', and I talked with some gay friends, about it!!
Nothing wrong with being 'gay' and liking that, but it is also totally OK, to be straight, and sometimes like some role-reversal kind of things, with a woman, and toys!
You also can't go back and do ANYTHING you passed up the chance to do.
That's how life works.
The question is: Do you want to regret a thing you've done, or regret a thing you didn't do?
Homosexual acts are common throughout nature and humanity.
I think sucking cock is one of the best things in the world and I'm glad I did. If you don't like it that does NOT make you a cocksucker. I know because I AM a cocksucker.
Relax and have fun. Attaching any religious meaning to sex is mental illness and abuse.
For what it's worth, I'm as gay as they come and when I was about your age I had an affair with a woman. She knew I was gay and was totally cool with it. It was very much an open relationship. As I was fond of saying at the time, she was screwing other men and so was I. In our circle of friends, men and women, gay and straight, we were regarded as a couple, but I never stopped thinking of myself as a gay man while the affair was happening. I did give me a feeling of comaraderie with straight men that I never had before. I think I'm a better man for having had that affair. And you'll be a better man for giving gay sex a try. Go for it.
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