1 or 2 times a week. Depends on our work. We both travel a lot. I masturbate if we are apart more than a week. We enjoy it more as we get older. More time, no kids. Love it.

with myself-everyday someone isn't there to play with.

if your wife is not begging you to have sex with her is because you're not doing it right

Me and the fella probably have sex every other day, would probably be every day but my work gets in the way. We've been together for nearly 5 years.

If you've never had much sex the chances are she's simply not a very sexual person and well, that's that. However as your complaining about it I'm guessing the amount of sex has decreased.

A lot of men here, normally the ones with the bigger cocks, will speak such bollocks that your doing it wrong, she should be begging for it, that she'd love it if it was with them and basically feeding there own little fantasy world while being chuffed with there size. Ignore these people. The chances of them being in an actual relationship is astonishingly low.

The last thing that effects how much sex you get is how good you are at sex. It's a factor, yes - but it's not really that important.

You do seem to be going about this the wrong way though, it seems as if your saying it's her fault and sex is something you should get. As soon as you ask for sex, complain about the lack of sex or start whining about it your not going to get it. It's that simple. Sex needs to be fun, it needs to begin naturally and she needs to feel like the sex is for her as well, not that she's just giving it you because you.

Many men get confused because a woman can REALLY enjoy sex after giving into a man's constant annoyance but then not want sex often still. If this is the case your sex, itself, is fine and it's your attitude towards it that needs changing.

Meaningful passionate sex will leave you a lot more satisfied than "just sex" sex ever will. It's more than likely see feels the romance has died a bit, that it's her body you desire and not her. So stop asking for sex, don't even mention sex. No speaking of sex.

Now get that romance back! Giver her massages (without fucking her afterwards), cook her a nice meal, have nice deep kisses but take it no further. Make her feel glorious again and the sex will happen without you needing to ask for it. Make her want to have sex with you.

The last thing you want to do is say something like "Most people get more sex than me"

Married 43 years and usually around 3 times a week.