At 75 with 65 years of experience I realize the long game is important....wish I had learned edging earlier and gotten comfortable with nudity and recycling my own cum earlier. A lot of great juice was wasted along the way. Solo jacking and the zen of long sessions are missed in early years spent on looking for partners and that slippery love slope. You are the center and the beginning and end...
Masturbate kneeling with your legs wide. That pulls your muscle tight. Get a woman's sexy panties and brush them slowly over your cock and balls so it feels like her fingers playing with you. Polyester panties are better than cotton for cock stroking as it's a bit rougher.
Play with your butthole, or have someone do it for you. I went down on a guy once while he was watching porn, he came, I swallowed, mutual satisfaction.
A good suggestion. Many men, roughly half of the male population and that includes a lot of straight men, find prostate stimulation by anal penetration to be VERY pleasurable. A few men can even reach orgasmic climax this way with little or no stimulation to the penis.
It is really fine to be in a three way with a guy who really enjoys anal penetration. I like to suck his cock while the other man fucks him. The dual stimulation of his prostate from the guy fucking him and my oral service to his dick will cause him to explode in a massive orgasm. A cocksucker's delight.
Or maybe you're a man who just doesn't take much pleasure from this kind of stimulation. As I said in my previous post, men who get pleasure this way are only about half of the male population.
And this has nothing what-so-ever to do with sexual orientation. Take me, for example. I'm as gay as they come, but the pleasure I get from anal penetration is so slight that it is almost nonexistent. That's not to say that I haven't been fucked. I have, hundreds of times. If the guy is really hot, the knowledge that he is using my ass for his sexual pleasure is enormously rewarding. But the physical pleasure just isn't there.
On the other hand, I've fucked a lot of straight men in the ass who gave every outward indication that they were really enjoying it. A few even climaxed while I was doing it. Let me take that back, MOST climaxed while I was doing it, but they required some penis stimulation from their own hand or mine. A few climaxed WITHOUT penis stimulation.
Hmmm...well I hope I'm not one of those guys who doesn't get pleasure from it. I'm straight but really want to explore different ways to pleasure myself. I think this calls for more exploration
It sure does. Find a nice stud who will give your ass a good pounding while you stroke yourself off. Toys in the ass are OK, but a hard dick attached to a living, breathing man is enormously better. The knowledge that he is taking pleasure from your ass makes your own climax all the more enjoyable. To go together is blessed, to come together is divine.
I know what you mean. I tried lots of toys in my ass but I just can't cum from that only. I've come soooo close though. SO very close. It's frustrating when you know you could possibly do it, but it's not quite there. I wish I had someone who could use the anal toy in me because it's hard to do it myself. Maybe that would work.
So you can come "SO very close" to achieving an orgasm with an anal toy but just cannot go over the top. You know that you enjoy anal stimulation and you want "someone to use the anal toy in [you] because it's hard to do it [yourself]". Man, the "anal toy" you need is a real dick! Have a man mount you, penetrate you and bring himself to climax inside you while whispering sweet nothings in your ear about what a really fine ass you have. I expect that the combination of the anal penetration you are receiving and the excitement of knowing that another man is using your ass for his sexual pleasure will do the trick.
But you say on your page that you're interested in both men and woman and that you like "sex talk". If you just cannot cross the line of having a man fuck you, than have your best lady friend mount you with a strap on.
sure, but i only go as far as jacking off together with a man. "interested" does not necessarily mean "attracted to". in any case, i'm open to many things. always willing to try.
You like anal stimulation and anal penetration. You can come very close to climax with toys you have manipulated yourself but just can't quite make it all the way. You have contemplated having an assistant wield the toy.
You have at least some interest in other men to the point that you'd be comfortable jacking off with another man. (Have you actually done this?) I conclude from this that you find it at least a little exciting to witness another man's climax and have him witness yours.
Before I go on, let me say that neither of these things necessarily means you're gay or bisexual. Roughly half of the male population gets at least some pleasure from anal stimulation/penetration, including a lot of straight men. And virtually all men like seeing other men's dicks and seeing other men climax. There is a reason that the ejaculation is called the "money shot" in porn, all porn, straight and gay. It's what the viewers are there to see.
Continuing, you claim to be open to many things and are always willing to try.
OK, let's put it all together. You very much want to experience a climax while being anally penetrated and stimulated. The best way to do this is to have a man mount you, penetrate you, stimulate you with his in and out stroking and at the same time stimulate himself to climax. The psychological boost of knowing that he is climaxing inside you very well might be all it takes to put you over the top.
But if you just cannot do this, probably the next best thing would be a lady with a strap on.
Imagine that you have 4 people playing with you. They have to take turns stroking you. Use 4 different grips to simulate the 4 strokers. They take turns. Allow 50 stokes each time. Imagine they all want to win your load. Enjoy every stroke!
One, do it with friends. Get together with your best buds and have a nice jack off party. The synergistic effect of seeing your buddies pleasure themselves while at the same time knowing that they are seeing you adds to every man's pleasure.
Two, do it in public. Knowing that others are watching and enjoying your pleasure along with you adds to your own pleasure.
great name All469. ;-), I am tempted also. just dont know which one I would enjoy more.Some of those textures look like they would make me explode quick.
1. Do it less frequently. It will heighten your sensitivity and feel more 'special'
2. Sex is all in your head. Stimulate your grey matter to increase your pleasure.
Google for 'Advanced Masturbation',..a site by that name has some ideas for those lacking imagination,...other than that, try deep relaxation and tehn spreading the sensation thru you whole body...
It is really fine to be in a three way with a guy who really enjoys anal penetration. I like to suck his cock while the other man fucks him. The dual stimulation of his prostate from the guy fucking him and my oral service to his dick will cause him to explode in a massive orgasm. A cocksucker's delight.
And this has nothing what-so-ever to do with sexual orientation. Take me, for example. I'm as gay as they come, but the pleasure I get from anal penetration is so slight that it is almost nonexistent. That's not to say that I haven't been fucked. I have, hundreds of times. If the guy is really hot, the knowledge that he is using my ass for his sexual pleasure is enormously rewarding. But the physical pleasure just isn't there.
On the other hand, I've fucked a lot of straight men in the ass who gave every outward indication that they were really enjoying it. A few even climaxed while I was doing it. Let me take that back, MOST climaxed while I was doing it, but they required some penis stimulation from their own hand or mine. A few climaxed WITHOUT penis stimulation.
You like anal stimulation and anal penetration. You can come very close to climax with toys you have manipulated yourself but just can't quite make it all the way. You have contemplated having an assistant wield the toy.
You have at least some interest in other men to the point that you'd be comfortable jacking off with another man. (Have you actually done this?) I conclude from this that you find it at least a little exciting to witness another man's climax and have him witness yours.
Before I go on, let me say that neither of these things necessarily means you're gay or bisexual. Roughly half of the male population gets at least some pleasure from anal stimulation/penetration, including a lot of straight men. And virtually all men like seeing other men's dicks and seeing other men climax. There is a reason that the ejaculation is called the "money shot" in porn, all porn, straight and gay. It's what the viewers are there to see.
Continuing, you claim to be open to many things and are always willing to try.
OK, let's put it all together. You very much want to experience a climax while being anally penetrated and stimulated. The best way to do this is to have a man mount you, penetrate you, stimulate you with his in and out stroking and at the same time stimulate himself to climax. The psychological boost of knowing that he is climaxing inside you very well might be all it takes to put you over the top.
But if you just cannot do this, probably the next best thing would be a lady with a strap on.
Two, do it in public. Knowing that others are watching and enjoying your pleasure along with you adds to your own pleasure.
I haven't got one but I am always tempted to buy
2. Sex is all in your head. Stimulate your grey matter to increase your pleasure.
Like this you mean?
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