From Matt's Wife: Cheaters are scum

It's something bothering you?

You are not taking into account that the largest percentage of what people say on this site is utter bullshit.
If common SYD belief is to be trusted (I am NOT saying that I do trust it. Well, not ALL of it):
A.95% of the "women" who post here are actually men.
B.Most of the "young" guys who post here are 15-20 years OLDER than they claim.
C.At least half of the "straight" guys are Bisexual (and half of the remaining 50% are just lying to themselves!).
D. Many of the most "popular" posted pics are photo shopped.
E. Many of the profiles are filled with internet derived/stolen pictures, and are not actual pictures of the member's...um...member.
Given this large amount of untruth that occurs here, why would you assume that people who "talk" about cheating are actually doing so? Chances are, they are just bullshitting. After all...this IS the internet. The truth may be out there, but it has gone into hiding...

Cheating is a truly point of view sin. Some consider it cheating just to look at and adult photo in a magazine. Others think anything on this site is cheating. Yet still others, myself included, look at cheating as strictly limited to extramarital, spousally unapproved intercourse.

There are as many ways to define "cheating" as there are individuals on the planet. As for respect, I've come to terms over the years with the idea that one can be totally in love with a spouse and still have extramarital affairs without cheating, in the strictest sense of the word.

My reference, at least one of them, relates to the men and women in the military that are deployed for long periods with no chance of getting home to be with their spouses. If they find a partner that is in the same circumstance and they find friendship and comfort with each other and the relationship will never interfere with their relationship at home, then although it's technically cheating, I personally don't see the harm or foul.

Now, that's not a position held by the majority but there are a lot of men and women who practice this type of extramarital affair without being racked with remorse.

For what it's worth, I didn't hold this opinion when I was deployed in Vietnam but many did and as I've gotten more mature and wiser, I've come to see this view's worth.

So, don't be appealed at how married people live their lives. Like yourself, they have the right to their beliefs and must take the responsibility for their actions.

So many reasons why while its mainly just sex with no true love. An extreme is that a woman can be killed for simply looking at a man in certain cultures.

If you want to be moralistic, go join a church.

Where does it begin to cheat, where does it end? Most of us dream of sex with other people. Many of us just consume porn, but never went wrong physically. Some are an exhibitionist, knowing that their partners won't unterstand it. I am not God. I can't condemn it. I think, everybody has to know himself, what his partnership worth is and if he hurts his partner and finally himself.

READING COMMENTS ON FORUM YOU CANT HELP REALISE LARGE PERCENTAGE OF MEMBERS ARE MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP,ITS A FACT ALL THROUGH HISTORY IN ALL STATIONS OF SOCIETY SO THE PROBLEM IS ?