| English is my third language and in class no one teaches you how to talk "love" or how talk dirty. My husband grew up in a Mormon family and he still doesn't use any curse words, and growing up he didn't witness much affection between his parents.
Our lovemaking used to be completely silent on his part at first, but he got more vocal with years. However, his bedroom vocabulary is not very diverse, to say the least. Dick, cock, penis, pussy, vagina, butt, boobies, breast, to hav sex and to make love, are the only words that can be used referring to any kind of sexual activity or process.
To help him use his words, I tend to ask question, however, I'm sick and tired of certain words used over and over, his go to words... The most evil one is "nice". I'm nice, my tits are nice, my ass is nice, my skin is nice, the bj was nice, my pussy feels nice and the sex was nice too, as well as dinner, movies, clothes and pretty much everything else was nice too, except for when it wasn't nice, then it's just Ok.
Tonight, after another nice bj, I had to say something, I just couldn't let it go this time. I asked him if there are any other words he could use, except for nice. He said that no other word that he knows, describes what he feels better than nice. Once in a while he'd use ok, good, great, but they are still very close to nice and have very little meaning to me.
I really need some help with this, cause I can talk dirty, but I don't know how to talk dirty without any curse words. Please help! If curse words were a no go, how would you respond to these questions if your wife/gf was asking?
How was the bj?
How do you like my pussy?
Why do you like fucking me?
Why do you love me?
How did you like your dinner?
What would you say during lovemaking? |
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OK, more seriously: Yes, words are only one way of expressing feelings, love, etc. Touch can often express much more. And really nobody wins in an attempt to change someone's basic personality and style.
Now I was going to answer the others... but really peach? The questions are lame and if my gf/wife asked those questions I'd be concerned and if she asked anything about dinner whilst having sex I'd be REALLY concerned. Genuinely, if you ask those questions I can see why your husband is struggling for words, I would too. Surely you know the answer to all those questions from body language, the commitment you made to one another and several years of sex together? Why do you need a vocal acknowledgement that a bj was great when you can see (and taste) that it was?
Maybe I'm being unsympathetic and it's a language question?
How do you like my pussy? - I adore the way it holds my cock. Mmmm it feels fantastic when your wet pussy rides my dick.
The rest are too personal and inappropriate. All a bit confused by this one...
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