Started by #301038 [Ignore] 02,Nov,13 23:01
 | I'm glad that this site presents a nice variety of members, to satisfy pretty much every taste out there. I'm used to seeing pictures that appeal to me as well as pictures that are way out of my preference range. If I come across a member that I like, I'll look through the pictures, comment on them, maybe even leave a message, and when I find a member whose pictures are not appealing to me, for one or another reason, I just move one without saying a word. I don't see a point in leaving a comment or starting a conversation with someone, who is not appealing to me, unless we have something in common or bumped into each other in the forum.
Today, I got a message from a guy, who didn't like the way I look on my pictures, and felt the need to express it with a mean comment. What I don't understand, is what is the purpose of all of this? Why on Earth would you get in contact with someone you don't like? |
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Some members, you included, went here on the forum, some members do that in private.
Do you remember one of your first posts here? Written in your language? Strong and sharp that any truck driver there on the I-40 middle of New Mexico would be proud on?
Yes peach, we all went on the different ways, and hell, we all have a different taste too.
Yes Emm, some members are blatantly rude.
Imagine that you have an American made care that was giving you a ton of problems and you go on a forum to complain about it, cause you need to vent your frustration.
After some consideration you decide that you want to get a Hyundai, because you want all the innovations and the comfort, but don't want to overpay for it. Logical thing to do would be to go to a dealership that carries those cars, right? Instead, you go to a Lexus dealership and drop a load of shit, because they don't have a Hyundai that you want.
My point is, if you want a Hyundai, don't complain to Lexus that they have shitty cars.
A certain group of the male population that you are referring to, reminds me of a door to door salesmen, who are trying to sell you a useless piece of crap, while you are in the middle of having sex.
You're comparing the complaints about the cars ... as someone would complain about the Hyundai to Lexus.
OK, got that point.
Now, have that member came to your site and make the comment about someone else or about your body?
Correct me if I'm wrong but my understanding is that he did not like how you looks like.
If that's correct, he were on the right place. I'm not going in the topic wright or wrong to make the negative comments, don't care about that. If you don't like to know how members see you than you should not upload the photos here.
Peach, I could make the same point what I heard about my photos but haven't. Why not? Because is irrelevant. I upload my photos, some members like them some don't. There is nothing I can do about that. It's their opinion and I accept how those members look at my photos. Men and women.
But you truly missed my point:
someone who read your post here from the beginning can see very strong pattern: you can complain about pretty much everything and everyone but god forbid someone can say something bad about you.
My opinion is that we have to be the same to the others as we are to our self.
Personal attacts are much more insulting than something said in an OPEN fourm!
Never leave a comment you wouldn't want to be given yourself.
Sometimes on a pic i'll leave a snarky comment, but I dont do it to be intentionally mean. Often it's because the pic amused me in some way or another, and I felt like being a smartass.
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