While I fully agree with 'your perspective' here and feel similarly, I was thinking that perhaps what you called "out of respect" for gay women, was however perpetuating a stereotype of men-hating gay women?

"It's unfortunate that so many straight guys quell their minor bi side for so long, and it's equally as unfortunate that gay guys quell their minor straight side."

Man, did you ever say a mouthful there! I've long contended that every man, no matter how straight he is, should at least once in his life go down on another man, suck him to climax and swallow his sperm. He shouldn't do this to please me or even to please the man he sucked off, but rather HE SHOULD DO IT TO PLEASE HIMSELF. He should do to expand his sexual horizons and to prove to himself that he has the ability to give sexual satisfaction and orgasmic release to another man.

I'm often criticized by straight men for advocating this, but the other side of the coin is that I think every gay man, no matter how gay he is, should at least once in his life go down on a woman and use his lips and tongue to bring her to orgasm. And I say this for the same reasons. He should expand his sexual horizons and prove to himself that he can please a woman.
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I just went to your page, and while you don't say how old you are, from your photos you look young. But you display a wisdom well beyond your years.