Started by #449110 [Ignore] 20,Aug,14 20:51
 | I am straight and haven't fucked a girl in years. The reason being is because I am broke as fuck and can't afford to take a woman out. I have a full time 40 hour a week job too, and I just can't come up with the funds to take a lady out to court her, to get in her pants. Is anyone else in my boat? |
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Short answer long: Basically what Bella said below; you can (must?) get creative and look for opportunities everywhere. Strange she mentioned the grocery store: my grandmother always advised dressing in Sunday bests to go to the store and it's always seemed wise. Eating is one thing everyone has in common, and an easy way to strike up a conversation -- it shows you're interested in them, in yourself and in a shared interest.
Wooing a women isn't about flashing the cash, it's about flashing your other qualities.
I have had relationships where he has deep pockets and I have been in relationships where my pockets are deeper. I have no problem "picking up the tab", especially if I have made the initial move OR sometime into the relationship. Some men are okay with that arrangement and some are not.
Ha! And a member said you don't bother with the forum!
1) How old are you?
2) Do you rent and or own your own home?
3) Are you active before or after work, ie. do you work out at a gym, do you jog, do you play softball, something?
4) Do you have single friends that are aware of your shortage of funds that have or will set you up to meet some eligible, open-minded ladies?
5) Do you attend church or temple?
6) Do you grocery shop?
I realize that the times are tough and it's getting more difficult to earn a buck BUT at the end of a 2 week period, you don't have an extra $40.00 bucks in your pocket for a date? Dates don't have to be expensive if you're dating the right lady.
Here's something that I did a number of years ago and my windfall allowed me to pay my house off approximately 2 years early. What I did, every time I broke a paper bill, I set the quarters aside, I didn't spend quarters. At the end of the day, I threw the quarters in a bucket and BAM!, in no time, I had a good amount of money. It's really quite easy to toss $1.00+ in the bucket daily. If felt I was broke, I was disciplined enough that I wasn't going to take a scoop of quarters to fund any unnecessary activity.
I think they just don't perceive money as flow in time, only what's present, so they basically have 2 states:
1. I have money and therefore I spend them.
2. I don't spend money because I don't have any left.
Her marriage ended because of spending habits, she is 70k in debt with bill collectors nipping at her heels, she reverse mortgaged her home, spent 13k through QVC in a 30 day period and after a bout of "tough love" and upon request of the family, saw a psychiatrist and was deemed competent, just makes bad choices and decisions. The only difference being, she's not 25 like the poster, she's 55.
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