No need to be abrasive.

I just find it peculiar that anyone would request a picture of another member's "face and tits together" if there was a concern that the member is "fake". If you have that inclination, don't interact with that member.

Some members, aka the "delete squaud", spend more time and are more interested in weeding out questionable members.

Regarding the member of 7 years that was recently deleted, yes, the photos referred had been uploaded and posted almost 7 years ago.

There's mixed feelings on seasoned members versus new members with regard to internet pics. Some feel that seasoned members should "know better" while some (such as myself) feel that the seasoned member should be given an opportunity to edit their profile, given time to see the "warning" message and edit their gallery prior to being deleted. As far as new members, my opinion, no hall pass.

As you said, we have a life outside of this site. Do you know how time consuming it is to track these pics down. I do what I can when I can. You surly don't expect the "delete squad" to go through thousands of members pics. If these jackass fakes would just lay low and out of site out of mind. They would get away with it. I don't visit men's pages very often, the wife does. But how I catch them mostly is they start posting the fake pics on the banner of SYC. They get to cocky.
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And as far as the 7 year member. He had 5 pages of fakes up to posting them last month. There are many here that have a couple fake pics and are longtime members. I won't bother with them. Like bella said, it's a touchy situation. Some see him as a 7 year member. I see him as a 7 year fake that got away with it. In this case we weren't talking about a few pics, we were talking about a few pages of fake pics.

I do not verify people not because I can't technically, but because it's not economically viable and risky. I could put a girl on a salary who would verify every user via skype or photo of the person with government issued ID all day long. But there is just not enough money to do that. Majority of the users are not interested to pay for this and never were.

Yes, there are several users who make a big deal about some members being not real here, but the majority of people who pay for the site either don't care about fakes or even give me a hard time when I delete them - like "you delete all the funny members, now the site is boring I'm not gonna pay for this". I was deleting fakes at first, you know, and I was thinking about making verification obligatory. But it's just not what most people pay for here.

Also, there are additional risks in that for me. People submit their IDs to many places these days and sometimes they get stolen. I would never collect IDs, but they may get stolen from other places and people would blame this site first, because it's more logical to blame some suspicious sex site, than some respectful bank that actually let your docs leak. ID fraud is a serious crime and I don't want to give even a slightest reason to be accused of it. So, considering additional risks and no money - not worth at all.

I sometimes compliment them on the hot pics and when I get a reaction I ask them if they also know they are on the site...

Ok, I have some pics on with ex-partners as well, but I guarantee their privacy (they all, except for one, knew I was on this site though)

Oh my! In just 2 hours time, WildProfessional was blacklisted by another member, for a total of 5 members in approximately 35 days time!

See, if the blacklist-er was required to include their name for the (WHY?) you could go directly to them and just ask.

You know what makes me just smile and shake my head? Our blacklist-er signs every freakin' thing else, the pics, the posts.....I can't figure out WHY? there's no frickin' "signature" on our (WHY?)'s, dammit!

Fricken' auto correct, I'm trying to do the lame boob thing that is used and it won't do it!

@ JustWill, now we will never know what the list of questions were.

Thank you. I asked the question, no one else was involved.

That isn't the same damn woman; idiot.