Started by #576685 [Ignore] 20,Feb,19 11:53
 | Always wondered how you guys found others to blow before the internet.
I lived in a small town growing up and never saw any outward signs of guys getting together. Your stories would be interesting. |
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You say that you grew up in a small town. If that's the case, then there might not have been a large enough gay population for there have been much of a gay scene. After all, we're only about three or four per cent of the population, though when you add in the nominally straight guys open to a bit of switch hitting there are considerably more. But any reasonably large urban area is going to have certain streets and neighborhoods that are notorious gay hook-up areas.
Then there is the bar scene. Fifty thousand people is about the threshold level for a city to be able to support a gay bar. Any city that large or larger is going to have one. In large urban areas there will be dozens.
Finally, there were gay guide books. I don't know if it's still being published in this internet age, but "Bob Dameron's Address Book" was the Bible for traveling gay men. It listed the names and addresses of gay bars and restaurants and even cruisey areas of all major cities. There was even an international edition for foreign travel. There is a lovely passage in Dan Savage's book "American Savage" about how he spent 24 hours in a major European city, Amsterdam I think. He met a local gentleman in a gay bar, spent the night with him and the next day went sightseeing with him. Being with a local he went places and saw things that the casual tourist would never see.
Well, I've kind of blabbed on here, but there was indeed life before the internet and there is still life today without it.
(1) It's nice that you gave your cocksucker a heads up that you were about to climax, but it's not really necessary. Any cocksucker worth his salt WANTS that load of sperm. I view the sperm as a thank you gift that the man has given me for giving him good oral service. And what a fine gift it is. It's a living product of his body as there are live sperm cells swimming around in that seminal fluid. That sperm will go down into my gut, be digested and turn into muscle tissue in my body. Part of him will become part of me. That feels really good.
(2) You don't say if you reciprocate, but if you do, spitting out the sperm is a faux pas. As I said above, the man has given his cocksucker a living product of his body. To reject that gift by spitting it out is bad form.
(3) That brings me to my third point in that reciprocation is NEVER required. If I suck a guy off and he wants to reciprocate, that's fine, and if he does not, that's fine too. There are also a substantial number of cocksuckers who do not want reciprocation. Sucking off a man who is so totally straight that he wouldn't dream of sucking a cock himself is a Major Fantasy for a lot of cocksuckers. If the man then reciprocates it destroys that fantasy.
OK, a few more points.
First of all you deserve congratulations, a gold star and a pat on the head for taking the man all the way to climax, accepting his load and swallowing it on your very first time sucking cock. You truly deserve to be awarded a Boy Scout Merit Badge for Cocksucking.
Secondly, you have discovered the real joy of sex shows, both as a viewer and a showman. Sure, sex in private is fun. But it is enormously more fun in front of an audience. Knowing that others are watching and enjoying the sex along with you makes it so much more pleasurable.
Thirdly, you have also discovered that we men can indeed give sexual pleasure and satisfaction to each other. And a man need not be gay or even bisexual to participate. Straight men can and do have man-on-man sex. It happens all the time.
Also, personal ads in the back of the local "alternative" weekly newspaper.
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