From Matt's Wife:I think if you don't show anything you will be quite bored because most of the real people will avoid you.

I admittedly come to look at pussy, and to comment and chat. I love doing "show and tell" with a woman when it's live and in-person. I'm not shy about showing my cock in that situation. Over the internet is something different. I'm afraid that any pics that I post might come back to bight me in the ass.... as it were. I have an average sized, average looking dick. Nothing to be ashamed of.... nothing to be amazed by, either. I just haven't gotten over the internet inhibition yet. I have sent some private uploads to female "friends" on this site.


This website invites people to come and look..... just as much as it invites people to show their goods. So, I don't feel that it's wrong to view without showing. People who show on this web site must realize that their are millions of anonymous viewers (in addition to those who are registered) looking at the universally accessible pictures on a regular basis. One would be naive to think otherwise. That, I assume, is part of the "buzz" associated with internet exhibitionism. Yes/No????


In addition to that, this site is designed to allow users to restrict access to their posted photos. If you don't want "non-showers" looking at your pics, it's easy enough to restrict them from viewing. So... what's the problem?

That's "come, look, & cum!"

if you're turned on looking at others, then you'll be even more turn on showing yourself. Go on do it, show us your wear!!!

Be anonymous... NOT shy!!! Need someone to take your pix?

I think the issue here is self esteem. It takes ages for some to take the plunge but once they do the site becomes so much more fun. You will be just as anonymous with the added pleasure of sharing

Don't worry, it's not wrong. I was a bit shy at first too. After a while I got enough courage to put some pics on here. Seeing it was 'anonymous'.

Most of the members here like to show themselves. So if you want to watch, both will be happy.

Best advise I can give you here, is not to do anything you don't feel comfortable with. If you don't want to show, then simply don't.

Hope you have fun at the site.

Are you hot? If you are, it's definately wrong to not show yourself

It's perfectly all right! Nobody has to do anything he or she doesn't want to do. If you go to my page you'll see that I, too, haven't posted any pictures. I am often asked by other members why not, and the short answer is that my husband doesn't want me to and I honor his wishes.

When I was younger, wilder and single, public nudity and public sex were very much part of my life. Thousands of people have seen me nude and engaged in sex. As oldbugle memtioned in his comment, I found it to be a very positive and cathartic experience. Indeed, I'd add to that list liberating, rewarding and fulfilling. The idea that other people could derive pleasure from seeing my nude body and my sexual activity helped me to feel very good about myself. As he put it, it was healing. But I left that part of my life behind when I hooked up with my husband more than twenty years ago.

I am sometimes given flak from other members about my not posting photos. However, no one is forcing them to post their pictures. If they didn't want to do it, they wouldn't. An exibitionist cannot get any satisfaction unless there are voyeurs there to look. I know that from personal experience. Dozens of times when I was nude and engaged in sex there were people watching who were fully clothed and that was fine with me.

So look to your heart's content and don't feel guilty about it.

THE SITE IS CALLED SHOW YOUR DICK, so yes it would be nice to see you. Nothing to be
shy about here. Totally annonymous, fun and good good natured.
But if you just want to look, no one can stop you. ENJOY>

I think most people here come to either 'show' or 'look',....relatively few come here to do both. I don't see a problem either way. Personally, I come to show. Although I'm quite shy by nature and also basically modest, I felt a surge of interest in showing when I first saw this site and it's been a very positive and cathartic experience which has healed some aspects of my sexual history,...although I have no desire to 'display' in public or 'real life'......