Hence the confusion. As I understand it the sexual activity is restricted to handling and sucking the cock only without any anal or even kissing. Simple gratification that I am sure many have but doesn't sit easily in any camp. I have the same tendencies as others have indicated in PM`s while the main sexual desire is women.. A member has expressed the same confusion in a PM that has only occurred recently after a good number of years married and with children. It could be that the internet and sites like this has perhaps raised it from the subconscious having been there from the school days.