If you cant show pics and are not willing.to upload any why are you on syd? I friend people I communicate with often, or have pics I like. Maybe tou would be better off on twitter. Just my thoughts since you asked...

Maybe this sounds familiar........

SYD is much like life, sometimes a person can blend well with others, sometimes not. I have been a member on SYD/SYC for almost 20 months but not continuously. My initial profile was without pictures as I was not certain that I wanted to post naked pictures of myself. It was difficult for connect with members because I didn't post pictures and they were not comfortable with that. Go figure! I wanted to have all the benefits of being a member that had "looking" privileges but I didn't want anyone to look at me. Just curious, you write that you can not post pictures, why is that? I think members would be more receptive of you if you did *however* to post or not to post is totally up to you.