Relax an do to his cock what you like done to yours, actually suck on it use your tongue on the underside of his shaft and his cock head. you will be able to know when he is about to feed you his cum,wen he does just swallow. when he is finished be sure to lick his meat clean

I agree with the comment, don't over think it. My first time happened after being out drinking to celebrate the end of project. We got drunk, went back to an apartment I shared with another consultant. We had a few more drinks. Suddenly he stood up and stripped; then he dared me to suck his cock. He was nice to look at and I was surprised how turned on I was getting. I found myself doing a quick strip, then walked over to him, took his cock in my hand and started stroking it. I pushed him back on the couch; kneed between his legs, took his cock in my mouth. I was surprised how natural it felt. I finished him, then sat next to him on the couch. We kissed and played around for a while. I loved the feel of his body on mine. After a while, he stood up, took my hand and led me toward the bed. We played around for a while longer, then he gave me an oil and toward me to put it on his dick. He inserted his dick into me, it felt so good; when he cum I loved the feel of it in me.

At the time I was not thinking, I was too eager, I wanted to have sex wit him. I wanted him in me. I never felt so turned on. Now I am always prepared, for safe sex.

Don't overthink it or weigh it down with too much heavy importance. These days no-one cares or thinks there's anything wrong for guys to be with guys, so it shouldn't require getting up nerve in the first place.

Try Craigslist or Dudesnude. Meet for a beer if you don't want to jump into it. You can go get naked that same night, or not - either is fine.

You should probably tell people you're new to this and want to grab a beer first. Some people will be fine with that and some won't want to get involved - either way, they'd rather know.

The most important thing is to prepare yourself to bail if anything doesn't feel completely OK - whether after 5 minutes or 2 hours. Just say "I don't think I'm ready for this right now". It'll be cool because you already said you're new.

Trust me, if you have this escape plan you'll feel more comfortable.

I don't mean literally no-one cares - there's plenty of ultrareligious homophobic nutjobs but they're just hateful idiots who are probably all sneaking out on their wives to go suck dick in public restrooms.