Good question. As the owner of a larger than normal cock, I know that there is no advantage to it at all. Or almost none.

Guys tend to think their cock is a magic wand that magically gives women uncontrollable orgasms. But studies show that fewer than half of all women orgasm from penetration. So, a cock is really worthless too them. And most of a womans cunt doesn't have sensitive nerve endings. Only the first few inches, about as far as you can reach with a finger. The rest cannot feel much. A long cock is reaching where there is no feeling. Until you hit the cervix. Most women report pain when the cervix stops a trust of an 8 inch cock into a 6 inch cunt.

Which brings up cunt length. Women seem to average 4 to 6 inches of cunt. Not counting cunt lips. A fully inserted 6 inch cock is going to do a good job on any woman who enjoys penetration. A tongue on the clitoris does a pretty good job on the rest.

But a fat cock is of some use while fucking. The average cunt does enjoy being stretched out wide. Big is good here. A fat cock also enjoys every cunt since they are all very tight to it. But a fat cock gets sucked a lot less. Even in porn, the women sucking cocks mostly suck thinner ones, especially if they are deepthroating.

To measure, it should be useable cock. How much is really available to stick into someone. That is either from the mans body on top, not pushing into his fat and skin, out to the tip not following any curve. Some guys have their balls sort of out underneath the cock which makes the bottom shorter than the top. They need to measure there. But very few people care anyway. Women are mostly measurement challenged and don't care. They are just fucking to please the guy, or just want a cock in their cunt. It all feels the same to them.

Unless it is too long or too skinny.

I concur with VERYSHYGUY. Very intelligent well thought out response. I do however still want a bigger dick. If you watch very much porn you would see that most men with big dicks don't even use half of their dick. There is more out of the pussy then I have in length.

I think it is plumb stupid to lie about the size of your pecker and then if the person you are trying to fuck actually gets to see,they will be disappointed or at least feel lied to.Just be honest about the pecker and if they are ok with it ,fine.IF not,I am sure they can find a telephone pole to ride.

My gf has no complants about my size,just slightly over 6"erect!

Oh, but that's easy. At least in my case, it is simply due to the way I measure. I have a slight foreskin fetish, so I couldn't imagine measuring with the skin pulled back. I am exactly and honestly 18.5 centimeters (7 something inches, isn't it?) measured along the top, to the tip of the skin.

You don't think I'm cheating by including the overhang, do you?

Insecurity.

I'm average and proud of it

Right tool for the job doesn't mean shit. Are you discussing making love or fucking

I find that my cock size seems to change depending on witch one I'm holding.

I have a hypothesis. We are conditioned that "bigger" and or "More" is always better by society. It's evident in our advertising for everything we consume. All you have to look at is the porn we watch. Almost all of the porn that is consumed shows men with extremely large members!

You are considered a "weak" and "pathetic" man if you are not well endowed!

It doesn't matter what women say about it, we are and have been conditioned all of our lives.


And who just wants to be average or below average anyway?

Have you gazed at superlongD 's member? He claims his member is an astonishing 15 inches long!

when friends have said that tome Ive said show me , most wont .

I think this site and others that show dick pictures are just about the only way a guy with a big dick can show it off.

Well, there is a bias, people with bigger dicks are more willing to brag about it. So this site has more than 2% of guys with big dicks. 5% may be, or even 10%, I don't know, it was never important to me. Otherwise you are right though.

I don't know why guys are like that. It just makes me want to slap them up side the head with my 13 inch cock.