tecsan, do you know who you're talking to? You used to constantly pick on lover now skittles. Think on that. Admin said no one can stay on a penis site all his life which makes alot of sense to me at the moment. I've never had a beef with you or anyone here until recently. But hopefully you will understand where I am coming from.

Ok for you it is syc but for me & most it is syd, a dick site.As far as "lover" that is loverfighter aka anon aka demonxyz...disregard what i said, i was probably bored.

admin has been receptive to suggestions. He has created games, the ability to "praise" another member for whatever reason, there are hundreds of groups to join to connect with members sharing the same interests, there are photo contests that are ego boosters.

You're bored yet you don't have any suggestions to give the site some pizzazz. I said this in another thread and it holds true here, we get what we give.

Thanks

And yet!

That opinion hasn't kept YOU from participating in such conversations, periodically, has it!? 🤔

Despite how YOU feel on this matter, YOU drop by, add your on some of those conversations, then! When you don't like the response(s) you recieve, NOW you wanna voice your opinion AGAIN, and suggest that those conversations are inappropriate for this place. Why is that?

One might think you of all people would understand/embrace freedom of speech. In good lib form you just believe everyone should what? Be like you? Do as you wish and shut the fuck up right? Everyone that comes to a sex type of site should just behave like dogs in heat, right?

Doesn't work like that, and if you believe it should, start your own fucking site where you can act like a sex depraved DOG 24/7 - 365 and limit IT, to what YOU want!

oldbugle, I thank you for your sincere and thoughtful response. I, too, have been here for many years, coming up on 9 years a bella!, however I was here previously under other screen names.

I noticed that in your time here, you have initiated over 20 forum threads to encourage conversations on various subject matters. Sadly, there were probably only 4 topics that sparked enough attention and were able to gather posts that spilled over to page two. The majority of topics that you had hoped would spark conversation had no posts or only 2, 3 or 4.

I agree with you, this site is unique and the people here, are real and real, everyday topics, like politics can be and are topics that they like to discuss. As for me, I try not to discuss politics and/or religion because I recognize thaf people have their own views that can and do differ from mine. I don't condemn or shame anyone whose opinions differ from mine, but that does not hold true for other members or in reality family and/or friends. For that reason, I steer clear of topics centered around politics or religion.

Your thought that the site would not suffer with less politics and trivia is most likely spot on, but I really do think that someone who believes that politics is the cause for the drop in membership, would not be correct in their assessment.