My husband enjoys watching or hearing what I get up to - I'd never keep anything from him or do something he didn't approve of. Cheating is cheating.

It only cheating if you get caught

Poof

Being a man I cannot answer that. My wife isn't into cheating but does love fucking other guys and has a heightened response to that when she does. But then don't we all when we fuck someone strange to us sexually? We were swingers for years and have slowed down but she still has a few guys she fucks once in a while.

We honestly don't see the point in "cheating". Someone is always going to be hurt. So much better to be honest with each other and have your partners blessing. Sex is just sex. We all get the urge to have something different once in a while? Doing so behind your partners back doesn't say much for your feelings towards him/her. Keep it clean and respect one another. Respect is key.

Fuck that. I don't know how anyone else feels. But I feel that once you're in a committed sexual relationship with someone, you only have half a consent to give. Because whoever else you're fucking...so are they, from at the very minimum an STD standpoint.

If they consent, yeah, go for it. If they dont...not only is it fucking rude (pun intended) from a physical standpoint it's nonconsentual. And fuck that noise.

You're welcome to feel differently. And I know everyone who cheats has it justified because he's so..whatever...leaves his socks out or cums quick or you blow him off because the new shiny thing will always be more fun. That goes from sex to go-karts to houses.

There's a rush getting a new thing and figuring out the new thing. There's a rush to the taboo. But you can do all that consentualy. There's roleplay, there's cucks, there's a fuckton of shit you can do.