I made what I thought was a very nice comment on one of Miss E-F photo's then A lady did a reply saying she thought it was the best comment ever made on a SYD/SYC photo. Then I received a pm from Miss E-F saying she didn't appreciate the comment and she thought it was BULLSHIZ (as she called it). And also said I probably tell that to everyone. To set the record straight I never made that exact comment about anyone's photo before not even close and it actually came from deep inside. Yes I do talk to many and comment where it's due. Her PM was a down right attack and I never had anything but good to say to her or about her. I figured the best thing for me to do was erase her from my friends list and take her photo's out of my favorites since she didn't like me or my compliments and comments. Doing this I would not be tempted to contact her by mistake and by now you probably guessed she banned me. Now don't get me wrong I have no trouble with the banned part but here is where i'm a little disturbed. If i'm at risk of being banned for leaving a perfectly polite nice compliment and comment on a photo do I take the chance to do it. Very confusing, I can't talk directly to E-F about it like a man to lady talk
now that she threw me to the dogs and banned me. Anyone else has an opinion on this that may shed a little light as to either comment on photo's or not. As far now i'm not doing it anymore, piss on that, fuck it if i'm going to get my ass jumped on for being nice!!!
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btw...you bore the crap out of me!!!
I think you are a nice guy and I always try to be.
Where he really screwed up is to bring up a name of a sweet innocent lady that has never gave anyone a bit of trouble and try to use her against me. Dude you should be ashamed of yourself who or what gives you the right to bring her into this. She is no longer here to read this and you think it's ok to rub her all over in this mess.
What i'm going to do out of respect for her is drop it because that is what she would have wanted me to do that is how good she is. I won't get nasty but listen to what I say and Emm please take note since you find it ok to protect someone who can so easily attack and use inoccent by stander to do. Where i'm from we are known world wide as being the nicest and most friendly people in the world and is actually a big tourest attraction it's in our nature. But what many don't know is that it also comes with another label that is not as evident at first glance but can be very visible quickly. These same breed of people are known to be the worst enemy you will ever come accross, history records will show this. One of the best ways to get us way out of control is to mess with our friends and family. Please Emm take this info and discuss it with your friend akaMrK. If he thinks it's ok to use my friends agaist me you both will open yourself to something that won't be nice. If it comes to that it will not matter to me if I get thrown off here but till then I will give you two people all the hell I possibly can plus anyone else that try's it. The lady in question means the world to me even though we parted ways a while back but I still consider her very close. I'm asking please don't continue on that path!!! For the good of all.
This thread is not about me or Miss E-F being right or wrong. Leave it alone!!!
"Here is something for you to ponder, If I could buy you for what your worth and sell you for what you think you're worth I would make a fortune. You are the kind of person that sits on the sidelines and strikes from behind like a coward, you said it yourself "keep in the background". You wait for the right time, hit try to score a bunch of points and go hide again. People like you are a dime a dozen. Try sticking yourself out there like a real man and if you get slapped around a bit no big deal it builds character. Now go back in your whole like a little mouse and do it again. When you decide to fire a shot at someone again get a bigger gun your tiny bullets just bounced right off. "
You gonna attack someone, go for it. Just don't do it one sentence after you say you are not going to do it.
You were called out for something that i have also noticed and you responded with a tirade of "defensive, hurt-feelings crap".
akaMrK did, however, almost paint himself in the same colour as you by not just stating his own personally-arrived-at opinion (and instead making the presumption that his female friends would want him to speak for them, or that that would be appropriate regardless), but still...he made a valid point and used a valid example (there was quite a lot of possessive/pathetic/"she's my friend too - look i'll divulge personal info about her to prove it" behaviour in the thread Obscura posted before she left, and you were not the only guilty party)
You have all the right as anyone else on here to express your opinion. But the thread wasn't started asking for anyone's opinion about what they thought of me but having said that I really don't give a damn what anybody that takes the opportunity to baash another member when it is none of their business says. You are just one of many that find it ok and easy to join the crowd and throw your 2 cents in in hopes to make brownie points or pat yourself on the back. And now here you go bringing up the same name that the other guy brought up. Man where are you two guy's coming from? That sweet little lady had nothing to do with this and now that she has politely excused herself from here both of you assholes think it's perfectly fine to use her here. There is no way either of you could have been her friends or you would have never used her like this I hope she doesn't decide to come back and visit and read that this is what you and that other fool think of her. If you guy's think od her as a friend please don't dis-respect her memory like this. You can say anything you want about me or to me I can hold my own I promise and not get mad about it. But you are heading down the wrong path,
leave that lady out of this!!! All you will do is cause all the people that love her to **** you then it won't be about me. Use your head, she never hurt anyone, she is one of the best things that ever happened on this site.
She is gone and does need to hear that she is being used this way. Fuck me!! But please respect her. I know all I need to know about her and the people who don't know her don't need to hear anything that could cause questions. Like I said lets keep her out of this. Thanks, Gary
3 of you in particular I was way out of line with and said harsh things to, i'm very sorry that happened. If I could go back and erase it all I would happily do it but it doesn't work that way. I'm a big guy but not to big that I can't admit I was wrong. I'm not going to name these ladies they know who they are, enough damage has already been done. I don't have the ability to go to each one of them and do this but I really think this is the best way to do it so there should be no doubt i'm sincere. No reply is expected but feel free to express what you want, I promise as far as i'm concerned the fighting and bickering is over, I will not jump back at you. Call me what you want a SOB a stupid ass, a crazy Moo Foo, thats fine you will not piss me off anymore. Special appology's are in order and should be done in private but at this time it's not possible. This is the best I can do at the moment.
"Threw me to the dogs"!? Like that would be a BAD thing? That's a down-right attack on dogs! What have you got against dogs? Some of my best friends are canines! I can overlook your obsessive,creepy, stalkerish, attention-seeking ramblings because I am aware that some people have difficulty separating reality from fantasy, but when you start insulting DOGS...you have crossed a serious line, Buster!
While I would prefer not to involve myself in this matter I trust it can be amicably resolved between the two concerned parties.
Why is Fairy (one female member) being disinterested in communicating with you a big enough issue to make public anyway? Take a deep breath and gain some perspective...
As I mentioned, this thread was started not to bash anyone or get under anyone's skin. It was intended to shed light on how hard it is to let someone who put you on their banned list know your sorry if they were miss treated or if
something that was said hurt their feelings. And see what others thought about commenting on a members photo's just to have that person slap you across the face for just being nice and giving an honest, clean comment.
Some of you mentioned this may not be the right place to do this and maybe you are right, tell me where is the right place to get multiple opinions? I'm easy to access i'm not on a private line PM me if you and I have an issue, do it here and you just continued what you said should not have been done.
I have many friends and yes are much closer than others but my belief was if you both have each other on your friends list you actually had a friend that was interested in getting along and sharing a friendship. If I got the wrong idea and it's not that way I invite anyone that has added me to their list feel free to delete me I have no problem doing the same, no hard feelings I promise.
Just to mention I left notes in a PM to some of my closer lady friends to please not get caught up in this mess, I don't want anyone taking it out on them for being my friend.
Think about that !!
The only interested parties should be the protagonists and as one has banned the other there's nothing really to discuss...
"Too much is too much, but much too much is just enough"
And look at that twat. Get it?
I dont know you to be ok or not ok with you, but if you upset friends of mine it'll be the latter.
I'm with the other sensible folk who think it was bad form to bring this up in here.
I'm unbiased in this matter so what I say is simply based on what I've read here.
I glance at the forum and see the topic "Odd thing between Miss Evil-Fairy and I! HELP!!" Of course THAT caught my eye, but then after reading it, only TWO sentences towards the end of the post are dedicated to what you say is the true issue. So honestly, in my eyes, it does look like its about Evil-Fairy and not about leaving comments.
Had the topic said "HELP! when is it ok to leave comments?"
Then add those two sentences:
"Anyone else has an opinion on this that may shed a little light as to either comment on photo's or not. If i'm at risk of being banned for leaving a perfectly polite nice compliment and comment on a photo do I take the chance to do it? Very confusing..."
Then MAYbe, this thread would be different...
To answer your question: No, it's not wrong to leave a nice compliment. It only becomes a problem when the RECEIVER of the compliment feels like its excessive. (kind of like sexual harrassment.....the feeling is based on how the RECEIVER of the attention feels)
And i'm sorry we can't get along I really believe we both tried very hard. I'm not going to sit here and blame you our personality's conflict and we are both set in our ways and it is not right for either of us to ask the other to make a dramatic change it just work that way. Unless we both accept each other the way we are it's best to leave it alone. That is why I decided to not approach you anymore unless you made the first move. There is no doubt in my mind you know I like you but I will not continue upsetting you.
Miss Emm I hope will forgive me and we can talk I believe she took some things I said the wrong way but the same goes i'm not going to make the first move. I really like her also and she knows it I always treated her with utmost respect and will always do so, if she holds anything against me it will have to be her to bring it up and hopefully we can work it out. If you noticed I asked if I could PM you.
Now E-F, not going to say anything about that enough has been said about it. I always liked her and I tried very hard to treat her with all due respect and be nice. Here again it's not my place to make the first move.
This is a fact and I have many friends that can attest to it, I can stay busy on here with all the free time I can gather making my friends happy and showing them I truly care for them and in many cases our friendship has been going on for a long time. I am not about to ask them to get in this as a matter of fact I asked them to please stay away. This is not about them.
I explained myself more than several times and let you know exactly what makes me tick. And what you do? You vip out your dick and have a temper tantrum, after which you delete me from your friends, just to come back couple days later asking to forgive you. I'm not here to negotiate, I expressed myself, I couldn't stress enough that you make me feel uncomfortable and unless you stop doing things that creep me out, you will not stop making me feel uncomfortable. I'm not trying to change you, I just can't stand the way you approach me. That's it.
I notice everything you say or do, you don't need to inform me that you left a comment, added my picture to your favorites... You don't need to let me know, that you are thinking about me, missing me, etc...
TONE IT DOWN. STOP CARING ABOUT ME, LIKE I AM YOUR ONLY СHILD BORN WITH BRITTLE BONE DISEASE! I'M A GROWN ASS WOMAN AND I DON'T NEED TO BE PATRONIZED!
Just sayin'...
PS Peach! can I PM you?
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