My attack... for all of you nosy SOB's calling me cold hearted.

Sep 9, 00:42 bigguy: bigguy has deleted Evil-Fairy from his/her friends Sep 9, 00:37 evil-fairy: Sweet, thanks. Sep 9, 00:32 bigguy: That's fine, you don't have to worry about anything I write about you anymore. I just try to be nice and give a compliment where it's due, no big deal. Have a nice night! Sep 9, 00:26 evil-fairy: Sometimes it feels that what you write is bullshiz, I don't find it flattertering actually, it feels...insincere like maybe you say it to everyone. Not trying to be mean, just that bugs a bit. Sep 8, 23:50 bigguy: I would like her to know that what I wrote was about the easiest thing I ever wrote about someone it flowed out just as your beauty flows. Completely honest and pure emotions spilling out. You do that to me!!

Sep 8, 23:47 bigguy: That was very sweet of Miss Rose!

Sep 8, 08:05 bigguy: You can shoot me the bird any time that is how sexy you are!!! Sep 3, 07:26 bigguy: I made a comment on another of your photo's. Other than your interaction with me which is ok, you get my vote for the sexiest woman on here, "by far"!! Aug 31, 21:16 bigguy: Well not BS. Your cute little saying like above your photo's and in the forum. Sorry if I hurt your feelings. Aug 31, 20:54 evil-fairy: BS? Aug 31, 07:42 bigguy: You always amaze me with the BS you come out with, lady you are very special and I really want to know you better!! That attitude of yours is absolutely beautiful!! For the sexiest woman thread on the forum I wanted to name you so bad I could taste it but you havn't interacted with me a whole lot so I didn't get the total effect. Now with saying that I don't want you to take that as me expecting you to do anything. You have always been extremely nice and polite to me and that means a lot. I will tell you here and now, overall you are the SEXIEST woman on here by far!!! And you didn't need to take a piece of clothe off!! You're a piece of art!! Aug 28, 09:36 bigguy: I miss you GORGEOUS!!!!


For me some of the comments were nice he didn't do anything per se, and I wasn't trying to hurt his feelings, but it was a bit too much.
Its kinda like the guy at the office that touches you whent they shouldnt or calls you "babydoll", "sweetheart", "dollface", or any combination of that.
Maybe I could have been "nicer" about it, but im a blunt person and don't beat around the bush. And again I know for a damn fact im not the only female that feels that way about some of the comments. Even men have said stuff about them being too much.

BG, just fuck tone it down a bit.

I think Evil-Fairy summed it up in a thread she posted within the last 7 to 10 days, or so......

She is flattered when members appreciate and comment on her pics however some comments seem to "go beyond" and make her feel uncomfortable. Why not try simplifying your thoughts and comments?

Another thought, I'm not sure that this was the best avenue to resolve this matter.

I am so sorry bigguy. I honestly thought your comment was fantastic! I apologize that my comment started this. Rose.

You're an awful person Fairy, how could you. Up until now I though you were generally quite a nice little fairy but this forum post has completely changed my point of view.

You are a wicked fairy, not the squishy fairy i used to know

Airing this on the forum was wrong.

I didn't start this thread to resolve anything, whats done is over. I'm not trying to change the results of what went on. If I would have been interested in having someone help to try and patch up the situation I would have asked for that. Exactly right it is between her and I to resolve but it is a little hard to do banned, it cuts off direct contact. Again I don't want to patch anything up she made herself perfectly clear that is why I got rid of everything about her. She had always been very nice and at any time could have told me to back-off. Well she did tell me and that is what I did back-off. I'm not going to re-produce what she said word for word from our PM's because that is what I thought they were PM's but i'm still going to respect what she sent and not mention it.
I really don't care what she does it's of no concern of mine, if she can't handle compliments or people being nice that becomes her problem. The main thing I started the thread for was to get input on if it is Ok to make decent nice, not vulgar comments on members photo's. Now after thinking it over to be on the safe side I will not comment on photo's anymore, period. Why not just do away with the portion of the site that allows the ability to do it? That way the members that don't want nice comments will not get them, makes sense to me. It has public access if you want to see the comment i'm talking about. Look at Evil-Fairy's photo's and find the one where she has a pretty little bikini bottom on, that's it, check it out and if I was out of line feel free to put me in my place. I have big shoulders I can take it, makes me think of Clint Eastwood
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