There is a terrible war going on in Ukraine.
BUT, those annoying emails telling me how many HOT Ukrainian women there are just waiting to marry me, still come pouring in to my inbox. Do the scammers think that people out there are SO DUMB as to respond to a ad like that nowadays?
You know I must have the best anti-scam system. I don’t get shit like that and I don’t get phone calls from strangers telling me that they are the police and I owe money to the Canada revenue service. I just don’t get them and that’s a good thing!
Just putting this out there, i have had a rough day and when I went just a while ago ,OH MY, so I got concerned and read this. apparently stress can really reek havoc on your bowels. I am normally in the cracked poop-healthy poop borderline ,today I was in the major softblob department.
My family has a history of colon cancer so when shit don't go well I get worried..
I had 1 10 years ago when I had a huge hemorrhoid come along and finally up and ruptured as I was driving down the hwy. ,and they said see you in 10 years. I keep getting something in the mail about me shitting in a box or something.
from what I understand it is not very accurate?
There was a referral to the abuse panel a couple of days ago and it was a member who has been here less than two years. If you are here less than two years you can’t vote and in conversation with him I found out that he doesn’t even have notification of any abuse panel complaints.
So the problem is that he was up for abuse but was never notified so he didn’t know and wasn’t able to rectify the situation by deleting a problem photo.
I think that if a complaint about you has been made you should be notified about it.
Thoughts? --------------------------------------- added after 22 minutes
Might it have come up under “Recent Events”?
His recent event notifications don’t go back as far
as that time so he can’t confirm it.
Thanks , kebmo. Yes, it concerns me. I would good to get to know what the charges are and get a chance to rectify the situation or react. I only heared about this through third persons contacting me. That experience was quite strange.
Members under a year should be allowed to review any posts in abuse panel but not allowed to participate in them. Maybe admin can change it to “read only”. So they can either remove pictures in question or give evidence that picture in question is there’s, with proof of course, so they don’t get kicked off the site without a chance to defend themselves.--------------------------------------- added after 118 secondsI would hate to get deleted without knowing why or being allowed to show proof that any matter in question can be resolved.
We've had members booted out for stupid reasons and the ability to rectify the problem doesn't always work out and in the favor of the reported member. Sadly, even when the "problem" is addressed and fixed, some of the voting members still proceed to vote to delete.
Without naming any member, I have my own thoughts about the offense that was reported to the EvaluationPanel the other day. Each and every single time we upload a picture, the following condition(s) are noted;
"by hitting upload button you confirm that you have legal rights for the pic you are uploading
You must be 18 years old or older at the time the picture was taken."
I read that to mean 1) no internet pictures 2) if I have be 18 years old, it only seems reasonable that everyone else in the picture should be 18, too.
With that said, the uploading member should have understood that there could be ramifications if it were deemed discrepancies in said content. Regarding a system generated notification to the reported member, CAT brought voiced her concern about the very same thing eons ago.
If you’re not a member with at least one year, you don’t even have an abuse panel on your page, a person has no idea what’s happening in the panel. Since I’ve been back after deleting my account last year, I have no knowledge of the panel until,,, I think ,,, my year anniversary.
I know, you question thst I was responding to was if members under two years were able to know they were in abuse panel ready for deletion --------------------------------------- added after 41 seconds
And the answer is no they dont --------------------------------------- added after 3 minutes
I stopped voting in the abuse panel because members were being deleted for bullshit reasons, not major issues
It may work but that's dependent upon how much information is provided to the offender and whether they are online to see their profile is in jeopardy of being deleted.
Do you recall someone that was reported on April 9, the member's screen name was Oralizedworship69. Heck, I took a screen print of the referral which was; "Posts only videos from the internet", which was not entirely true. The first seasoned voter voted to delete. I was 2nd to vote and voted NO ABUSE with the following comment/reason AND placed a freeze on voting while I reached out to the member. My comment/reason was as follows;
"According to the profile page, reported member has uploaded
541 pieces of content, 9 pages yet only 3.5 pages/videos are
extracted from commercial porn videos? I say give the guy a
chance to delete the content. Surely the fact that he has
uploaded more than 300 amateur photos of himself and/or lady
friend should be enough to allow him the time and leniency to edit his gallery of content."
I did message the guy and he blacklisted me which was really no problem other than I couldn't verify whether he edited his gallery. A respected SYD member voted NO ABUSE with the following comment;
"ABUSE HAS NO GROUND 10,Apr 11:28
find pretty weird posting such big amount of content like
this from the web as it doesn't contribute to anything 6 this site atsuch a scale. Sharing something from internet here can be fun once in a while but here it's just spamming...YET, as Bella! pointed out, this member ratio between their actual contribution and what they recently.. looded the place, still balance thingsout. For now at least"
There were 5 of us that voted NO ABUSE and I can tell you the names of 10 of the 11 who voted to delete. Heck, even one member made the following comment with their vote to delete; "blacklisting someone for trying to help them is also unreasonable"
Kudos to kebmo for his posts and banter in this blog /blogs/57126.html ! Apparently, this member has appointed himself and has undertaken the job to identify the "genuine" female profiles from the "fake" female profile, meaning profiles established by men posing as women!
My guess is that this moron is basing his "scientific study and theory" on whether the profiles are genuine or not, are if he is able to find a picture of the member holding a sign with their nickname OR if the member chooses to send him a private picture to him to PROVE otherwise...... What I find interesting is that the numb-nuts has attempted to share PRIVATE pictures sent to him by GoodGirl and Holly212 by posting their pictures in his blog. Isn't this unethical and a breach of trust? What's also a hoot is that in over 800 posted pictures of his alleged wife, there's not a picture of her or him authenticating themselves. So who died and left him/them in charge?
FC, good for you. It's time we, women, started telling these men to go get cockled. Oh, wait, that's probably what they like. Well, you know what I mean.
And another "by the way", did you happen to read some of the posts made by the other wankers? It's like they weren't aware that there were so many fake profiles and are relieved that this guy has got a list together that separates the genuine from the fake. Gosh, I didn't know that admin gave his brother-in-law such a big and sensitive assignment!
admin this guy has been blacklisted by 24 (probably female) members. Apparently he is sending them private messages demanding that they prove their gender to him. He is a menace to the site’s
valuable female members.
More than likely he tried to interact with the women and they gave him the cold shoulder. Among the first “non-women” list he has Sherryann as one. She is one of the sweetest and down to earth female members on site.
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I have got no interest in interacting with the women in this site, I never have done. So, no, not more than likely. Inaccurate guesswork at best. I refer you back to my intentions of weeding out those posting revenge porn, it's not rocket science. People keep using the term fake when chastising me about this. Iit is not fake pictures, Internet pictures or anything else "fake" I'm trying to call out. It is men pretending to be women in conversation and revenge porn. It's very simple, but please, don't let the truth get in the way of a good story!
Love-it
First, I noticed your account is that of a couple, so, whom am I chatting with? Are you the male or the female or is this a Man/Man or Woman/Woman couple?
Second, you state that "I have got no interest in interacting with the women in this site". Does that mean you interact only with men or want to interact only with men.? Are you a homosexual?
Third, if the above statement is true, why do you care if a member is truly a female or a female wannabe?
Fourth, my "inaccurate guesswork" is no less accurate than your guesswork. You are guessing and, in doing so, you bring harm to members just by your innuendos.
If a member is fake or not, he/she has the right to be here as much as anyone else AS LONG AS THEY ARE NOT DOING HARM TO OTHER MEMBERS. You, on the other hand are doing harm. You should be booted out of the site. That, of course, is my opinion, and not my call to make.
Fifth, who made you the fake/revenge porn police on the site? I don't remember Admin saying so, nor do I remember having an election to vote you to the position. If you have a beef with another member, either contact Admin or bring it up to the abuse panel's attention. Unless you have concrete proof of what you are implying, you don't have the right to make a blog were you impeach the integrity of a member. Especially when you go after one gender.
Sixth, if all the above did not have any effect on you, then, may I suggest you block all the members that you dislike or suspect and go on with your life? It's that simple.
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When I get time I'll answer all of your questions, I'll do them one at a time though - I don't want to overload your intellect, I appear to have already done that with Bella.
I am annoyed that people have nothing better to do than to pretend they are someone they are not, tie up server space ,miss lead people and so on.gender is not the issue.the faking is. I can't believe that i am alone in being annoyed by that.
I mean really, how many fake profiles are there of 78 year old men with 2 inch dicks?
the fake profiles are always the 1's that would attract attention and are desirable,but turn out not to be real. Server space aint free, the time to take care of the site aint free, and How many people are here to interact with FAKE people? Not many
Why not get a AI girlfriend or go to a AI site if dealing with fakes is the goal?
I don't think it's trivial but, on the other hand, none of the "harm" is harmful. Take the case of the ex-member with the sex dolls. The dolls weren't real, but, many members liked it. Server space would be used if the member would have posted as himself or as the dolls.
I see many men that "enhance" their tools. You know what I see? A big cock that makes my knees weak. So what? I'm not going to jump in bed with him. I just get the thrill my mind provided using that pic. As they say, "no harm, no foul"
phart, you speak about server space not being free and the time it takes to "take care of the site aint free". That brings up a peeve of mine, members that squawk but do not financially support the site.
Well when I came across his holier than thou blog I kind of lost it. I’m actually quite surprised that it ended up here but I’m glad it did because what he is doing is harassment of other members.
I never understood the whys behind fake profiles with internet pics to begin with. and I will admit, I doubt half the female profiles here are real, but nothing I can do to fix it so I don't worry to much about it.
I don’t care really if anyone thinks I am or am not. Verification really isn’t worth anything, it’s not like the site is going to give me an award I can show off to my future grandchildren. I think I made the mistake of clicking on his pic from the main page, and it pissed him off? A lot of gay men seem to get pissy whenever a female looks at their page. Then the straight men will talk to anything that breathes, and even then probably not a requirement. A bit of advice guys most “women” especially straight ones, don’t care to see your hairy, shit stained asshole, or you sucking another guys cock, re-assuring you that you have a average size cock, or you getting pegged. At least I don’t.
I've never been one to back down from proving I'm me, so I bit. 😂 I've been around long enough to know a good portion of female profiles are fake, so I can understand why he'd be on his little hunt for actual females, but he's going about it in a very strange way, and adding a bit of unneeded pressure. Being here is supposed to be fun, I don't see why anyone needs to prove themselves. Especially being that I've already been carded at the door.
Blah, blah, blah back at you! Where have you found me to be an advocate of revenge porn? NOWHERE! On the contrary. Just because you or anyone else takes it upon themselves to contact any member and demand them to prove their authenticity says a lot about you. Who the heck are you, you've got a lot of balls to call out anyone. Oh my, we've never seen your balls, have we? You might just be singing soprano and that woman's eunuch!
Don't be so fucking lazy. There's photos (and videos) of me inserting my testicles into my wife's vagina. As previously said, don't let they truth get in the way of a good story. Twat.
You are openly chastising someone in their attempt to do nothing more than out people engaging in this despicable behavior. That is complicit, in my opinion. Apparently though, you're not allowed opinions on this site, people feel, and I quote " intimidated, bullied, pressured & victimised". This is an ADULT site, posting ADULT content, every single member has the right to say fuck off or ignore another member. "But I was offended!". Fuck off snowflake, and grow a pair. What a load of absolute nonsense.I do like a healthy debate though, so I look forward to having a chuckle at all the other shit that will flow from you.
An insult is not an insult if it's the truth. --------------------------------------- added after 3 minutes
And before you come after me, I posted my redacted Florida Drivers License. I blanked out the house number, most of the driver's license number and last name. And if you don't believe me, ask Skittles.
You are absolutely right. By your standards, no one is real. Tell me, how many people do you know that leave their drivers license around to be pilfered, let alone uploaded to someone's computer and then altered and, finally, uploaded to the site?
That's just not true if it?? No one is real by my standards, now you're plumbing the depths of desperation to make a point. Are you telling me it would not be incredibly easy for a husband (or wife) to do that to the spouses I'D? And that is exactly my point, men pretending to be women. I yet again, you're making my point for me and doing even know it.
No I’m not. You are the one who’s reaching. But, let’s follow your reasoning. How do you recognize a real woman/man on site? What would convince you without violating the anonymity of the member?
Very simply by doing what the few actual women on the site did - take a photo with their name (Syd name obviously). Anonymous and can't be faked. It's not rocket science, this is what I've been saying from the start. There was such uproar over the prospect of it for one reason and one reason only - the number of members that aren't posting as three sex that they are.
Being "verified" proves fuck all, as I've illustrated with your driving licence "foolproof" bullshit. How would one of these individuals get a photo of of their wife's cunt with their Syd name written next to it? Well, they can't; ergo, my method is in fact the better option.
I never said my method was full proof, just unlikely to be used by another person. Your method is much, much easier to do. All that's needed is a pic. Everything else can be edited with any good pic editor software.
Right, this is an apples and oranges scenario. Imagine this : John (for any number of reasons) wants to share intimate (and identifiable) photos of his girlfriend/wife, Julie. He "borrows" her ID and goes through your sacred verification process with no issues. He then merrily posts any photos he likes of Julie for any number of years and you ask think that because he's "verified" it's all legit. Not exactly watertight is it?!
Now, say you put something in place like I've been advocating whereby you have to post a photo (non identifiable) while holding a piece of paper giving your Syd name and the date. John is incredibly unlikely to manage to do that of Julie without her consent and/or asking "what the fuck is this for?!".
Now, I don't know how many times I have to say this before it registers - my point from the very beginning was to specifically root out men that are posting photos of a women AND pretending to actually be that woman is conversation and involvement with others on the site. On top of that, it would absolutely stop any instances of "revenge porn"..
Now, if you can't grasp what I'm saying or are unwilling to give it any thought then I absolutely give up. You can't as they say educate pork.
Let me quote something I read somewhere,
"You're great at name calling an insults. An incredibly weak and valueless debating technique. Congratulations on a glaringly low level of intellect."
Anyway, I bow to a higher intellect (sic). Pease, Lollipop.
Really. You may be of the sad inclination that might allow you to "fall in love" with a person on the Internet. I am however not. I say again, just saying something doesn't make it true, therefore you have an obligation to say what you're basing your opinion on. This should be very interesting...
Just saying that your list of people are men pretending to be women does not make it true. I’m sure I’ve already said that a couple of times. You’re just saying it and you have no proof. If you say something the onus is on you to prove that it is true.
You should contact admin and suggest new options about proof of identity since you feel so strongly about it. The decision of how people identify themselves here is not yours to make because this is not your site.
To reiterate, just because you say it doesn’t make it true.
Again, you have not addressed my point - that the verification process serves nothing more than to give people like you some sort of faux feeling of aristocracy. It is completely worthless and still allows incredibly easy avenues of falsehood and abuse You have still failed to tell me what you've based you comment "afraid of falling in love with a man" on. How many times are you going to try and deflect my questions and points? Having a go at me for something else doesn't qualify.
Whatsboutism Is a very weak debate tactic that you use over and over again.
Talk to admin If you would like to change the policies of this site. You do not have the authority to do so.
Have you ever attempted to reach out to admin? My guess is you have not. From my experience, admin will respond to inquiries and considers any suggestions.
He does not understand that verification by photo does not prevent member from replacing images to something else. It's not a dating site where you upload couple of photos, verify and do not make any more uploads in years. Here people upload new images and delete old ones all the time. Someone would have to compare every new single upload to verification photo of the corresponding member. That's almost impossible job. This is exactly why I made verification voluntary and by other members, because they usually communicate with those they verified on a regular basis and may notice if profile is changing.
You mean correct. You've crawled back into your box as has CAT because you have nowhere to go and are unwilling to admit that your sacred verification process is deeply, deeply flawed. My suggestion is however not. It is not me that is unwilling to admit anything. Amen brother.
Ah, the old base insult again, so, so clever. You and your little band of faux verified royalty have failed to tell me how the process that you all hold so much faith is in any way fit for purpose. In the example I gave to CAT, how can you possibly say that a process as described is not the way to go? I'll tell you why, again - because it will completely fuck up a huge amount of profiles on her because, guess what? As I've said from the beginning, there are an incredible number of people on here that are pretending to be the people in the photos that they post INCLUDING your precious "verified" band of "brothers.".
I understand perfectly. If you had one photo when a member initially joined to verify their sex and the account was opened and limited to staying said sex it doesn't matter what they delete/post/ delete in the future, they would always be listed as that sex. Now, tell me why that can't be done..... "Verification by other members"?? As I've already illustrated numerous times and not a single person has been willing to admit, that system is the most easily corrupt system. What I'm proposing is not, and could by the way also be carried out by other members. So, again, I ask you and any of the other "verified" royalty - why is this a bad idea? The truth although no one will admit it is because it would drive literally hundreds of members from the site. I find the whole thing actually quite funny.
Because it's pointless. Nothing stops a person determined enough from acquiring a female verification photo. They may have friendly females, they may pay to prostitutes, there are even people on interned who offer such kind of service for money and it's not too much. Heck, I've even seen females being fooled into making verification photo for other sites. And recently, there are even AI generated images that can be quite convincing. Also, essential part of female profiles are operated by males with consent of their spouses whose photos they use. No matter what verification you do, such profiles will still exist.
And you just don't understand the numbers. Real revenge porn is rare and usually easily spotted. Those profiles mostly upload, plaster real names all over and go post somewhere else. If someone keeps chatting pretending to be female it's usually not a revenge porn, just some wanker getting who knows what out of it. And they mostly use internet photos with made up name which is copyright violation at best, not photos of someone they actually know and have grudge against or use their real name. And recently they more and more often use AI generated images which can't even be a copyright violation.
Revenge porn is not rare, I believe there are several examples on here where memers are doing exactly what you say, even giving work location etc. Just because nothing is foolproof is not a valid reason for not doing the best you can. The current process is deeply flawed and not fit for purpose.
Life is not perfect because every action has some kind of cost attached to it. And not being cost-efficient is a valid reason enough for not doing something.
There are all kinds of costs. Not necessarily financial, it can be time, reputation, potential risks, etc. Though eventually everything can be measured by money.
You claim you are real deal yet you told me that you would not prove yourself to other members and this is a quote from your message - "no way I would share an identifiable photo with the nut jobs on this site" and just now you suggested that it should be made by those very "nutjobs".
So, I assume you are just trolling and therefore I will withdraw myself from this discussion.
You can withdraw yourself from the conversation if you like, but you've got it wrong, the key term being identifiable. I would not share an identifiable image of myself with said nut jobs but I would a non identifiable, the validity of which can't be argued with, as I've said many times. I'm not trolling and am still waiting for someone to tell me why my idea is not a realistic proposition. You, like the rest can't because you know it would kill the site by driving away all of the frauds. That makes you, like the rest complicit in the distribution of revenge porn. I have express concern that this has and still is regularly being published on this site and illustrated that you verification process is not for for purpose. You have an obligation to improve this system, not doing so is a gross dereliction of duty, legally and morally.
Also, instead of yours and CAT's diversion tactics, I'd like either of you, or indeed anyone else to respond and tell me exactly how is this magical verification process that you all seem so heavily invested in: a) In any way fit for purpose. b) Better than my suggestion. Or as you've previously said, have I not got the right to question a "10yr, verified member"?? Absolutely laughable.
You have the right to question a member no matter how long he/she’s been here. What you don’t have the right is to say that member is fake because he/she doesn’t answer your query. You keep saying I’m using diversionary tactics. Why are you so in need of me agreeing with you?
The verification process we use now is not perfect, but, it does work most of the time, and why would anyone want more than that? Your “system” would probably work too, but, it’s too cumbersome, too complicated and too time consuming, and, at the end, as everyone has told you so far, it can be defeated.
Not perfect? It's not worth the paper it's written on. Complicated? Taking a photo is complicated, cumbersome and time consuming is it?! Give me a break, it's simpler and better. I also have the right to "believe" whatever I want.
Oh mate! What you’re asking for, I have already done with 18 members that were able to verify me and give me the green tick on my page. I do not have to show you the same picture just for you to put my name on your good list in your blog. That opinion of yours is flawed. Yes, there are plenty of men hiding behind female profiles here for whatever reason, these profiles are easy to spot for the members that care about who they are interacting with. The others don’t mind who they are talking with, so let them be. If you want to fix the problem you are complaining about, support the site and get verified yourself then you can help verify legitimate members. That is going to have more impact and be more helpful than your blog that has geniune female accounts listed as fake.
My answer to this is simple. Bollocks. For a community where you can choose to do something or not they're are glaringly large holes for wankers to abuse. One simple requirement that I propose to even post on the site would eradicate that issue. Asking already "logged" members to jump through hoops can't and will never work, why? - because the majority can't. As such, the site can't exist with only "legitimate" members. That's why my suggestion has been hit with such hostility.
Your opinion of " they're easy to spot" is not a vindication for them existing.
18 out of how many members?? Hardly a democracy is it? It's ridiculous for any of you to even consider that you're really any different to an "unverified" member. Again, I revert to this faux opinion that you're more genuine than Joe Bloggs that creates a profile.
- and not a single person has been able to tell me how this magical verification process proves anything or stops revenge porn. Can you? I really how in wrong and that you can.
- I'd also take you up on your statement about truth. Look back through the posts and find me any evidence whatsoever that justifies the infantile, school yard name calling as based on truth. Yet again, you're using language that anyone can type but it's based on absolutely nothing. I look forward to your sensible, fact backed, intelligent response.
What?! You really are not the sharpest tool in the shed are you. This is an "adult" site yet you and your dad little minions have to resort to school ground name calling and vulgarity at the first opportunity. Pathetic, and as I'm getting a little tired of saying a clear indication that you've already lost the argument. Congratulations.
I would just want to add that not everyone who didn't post a photo for verification is a fake profile. When I became a member, there were no requirements to do this. When the rules changed to be allowed to post adult content, I didn't like the requirements to verify my identity and age. "You can only upload content on this site after you submitted your verification documents." I'm not going to do that, so I'm not posting anymore adult photographs. If the verification picture was the only requirement, I would do that,
but they are not getting my verification documents.
Some people have careers to worry about. Nude pictures can ruin a career.
BUT, those annoying emails telling me how many HOT Ukrainian women there are just waiting to marry me, still come pouring in to my inbox. Do the scammers think that people out there are SO DUMB as to respond to a ad like that nowadays?
“It’s done but there’s blood everywhere” and hang up. 🤣
Just putting this out there, i have had a rough day and when I went just a while ago ,OH MY, so I got concerned and read this. apparently stress can really reek havoc on your bowels. I am normally in the cracked poop-healthy poop borderline ,today I was in the major softblob department.
My family has a history of colon cancer so when shit don't go well I get worried..
from what I understand it is not very accurate?
only registered users can see external links
So the problem is that he was up for abuse but was never notified so he didn’t know and wasn’t able to rectify the situation by deleting a problem photo.
I think that if a complaint about you has been made you should be notified about it.
Thoughts?
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Might it have come up under “Recent Events”?
His recent event notifications don’t go back as far
as that time so he can’t confirm it.
"by hitting upload button you confirm that you have legal rights for the pic you are uploading
You must be 18 years old or older at the time the picture was taken."
I read that to mean 1) no internet pictures 2) if I have be 18 years old, it only seems reasonable that everyone else in the picture should be 18, too.
With that said, the uploading member should have understood that there could be ramifications if it were deemed discrepancies in said content. Regarding a system generated notification to the reported member, CAT brought voiced her concern about the very same thing eons ago.
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Like you get notified of this.
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I sent you a screenshot of the rules
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I know, I used to be here for over 12 years b4 I deleted my account and most cases were ridiculous
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And the answer is no they dont
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I stopped voting in the abuse panel because members were being deleted for bullshit reasons, not major issues
Do you recall someone that was reported on April 9, the member's screen name was Oralizedworship69. Heck, I took a screen print of the referral which was; "Posts only videos from the internet", which was not entirely true. The first seasoned voter voted to delete. I was 2nd to vote and voted NO ABUSE with the following comment/reason AND placed a freeze on voting while I reached out to the member. My comment/reason was as follows;
"According to the profile page, reported member has uploaded
541 pieces of content, 9 pages yet only 3.5 pages/videos are
extracted from commercial porn videos? I say give the guy a
chance to delete the content. Surely the fact that he has
uploaded more than 300 amateur photos of himself and/or lady
friend should be enough to allow him the time and leniency to edit his gallery of content."
I did message the guy and he blacklisted me which was really no problem other than I couldn't verify whether he edited his gallery. A respected SYD member voted NO ABUSE with the following comment;
"ABUSE HAS NO GROUND 10,Apr 11:28
find pretty weird posting such big amount of content like
this from the web as it doesn't contribute to anything 6 this site atsuch a scale. Sharing something from internet here can be fun once in a while but here it's just spamming...YET, as Bella! pointed out, this member ratio between their actual contribution and what they recently.. looded the place, still balance thingsout. For now at least"
There were 5 of us that voted NO ABUSE and I can tell you the names of 10 of the 11 who voted to delete. Heck, even one member made the following comment with their vote to delete; "blacklisting someone for trying to help them is also unreasonable"
My guess is that this moron is basing his "scientific study and theory" on whether the profiles are genuine or not, are if he is able to find a picture of the member holding a sign with their nickname OR if the member chooses to send him a private picture to him to PROVE otherwise...... What I find interesting is that the numb-nuts has attempted to share PRIVATE pictures sent to him by GoodGirl and Holly212 by posting their pictures in his blog. Isn't this unethical and a breach of trust? What's also a hoot is that in over 800 posted pictures of his alleged wife, there's not a picture of her or him authenticating themselves. So who died and left him/them in charge?
By the way, good to see you again!
valuable female members.
This guy is trouble.
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PS Kebmo, kudos for standing up for us women.
First, I noticed your account is that of a couple, so, whom am I chatting with? Are you the male or the female or is this a Man/Man or Woman/Woman couple?
Second, you state that "I have got no interest in interacting with the women in this site". Does that mean you interact only with men or want to interact only with men.? Are you a homosexual?
Third, if the above statement is true, why do you care if a member is truly a female or a female wannabe?
Fourth, my "inaccurate guesswork" is no less accurate than your guesswork. You are guessing and, in doing so, you bring harm to members just by your innuendos.
If a member is fake or not, he/she has the right to be here as much as anyone else AS LONG AS THEY ARE NOT DOING HARM TO OTHER MEMBERS. You, on the other hand are doing harm. You should be booted out of the site. That, of course, is my opinion, and not my call to make.
Fifth, who made you the fake/revenge porn police on the site? I don't remember Admin saying so, nor do I remember having an election to vote you to the position. If you have a beef with another member, either contact Admin or bring it up to the abuse panel's attention. Unless you have concrete proof of what you are implying, you don't have the right to make a blog were you impeach the integrity of a member. Especially when you go after one gender.
Sixth, if all the above did not have any effect on you, then, may I suggest you block all the members that you dislike or suspect and go on with your life? It's that simple.
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but It does annoy me that there are fake profiles at all.
I mean really, how many fake profiles are there of 78 year old men with 2 inch dicks?
the fake profiles are always the 1's that would attract attention and are desirable,but turn out not to be real. Server space aint free, the time to take care of the site aint free, and How many people are here to interact with FAKE people? Not many
Why not get a AI girlfriend or go to a AI site if dealing with fakes is the goal?
I see many men that "enhance" their tools. You know what I see? A big cock that makes my knees weak. So what? I'm not going to jump in bed with him. I just get the thrill my mind provided using that pic. As they say, "no harm, no foul"
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I’m usually up for guys CAT but last night I was up for you & Bella!
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And before you come after me, I posted my redacted Florida Drivers License. I blanked out the house number, most of the driver's license number and last name. And if you don't believe me, ask Skittles.
Being "verified" proves fuck all, as I've illustrated with your driving licence "foolproof" bullshit. How would one of these individuals get a photo of of their wife's cunt with their Syd name written next to it? Well, they can't; ergo, my method is in fact the better option.
Now, say you put something in place like I've been advocating whereby you have to post a photo (non identifiable) while holding a piece of paper giving your Syd name and the date. John is incredibly unlikely to manage to do that of Julie without her consent and/or asking "what the fuck is this for?!".
Now, I don't know how many times I have to say this before it registers - my point from the very beginning was to specifically root out men that are posting photos of a women AND pretending to actually be that woman is conversation and involvement with others on the site. On top of that, it would absolutely stop any instances of "revenge porn"..
Now, if you can't grasp what I'm saying or are unwilling to give it any thought then I absolutely give up. You can't as they say educate pork.
"You're great at name calling an insults. An incredibly weak and valueless debating technique. Congratulations on a glaringly low level of intellect."
Anyway, I bow to a higher intellect (sic). Pease, Lollipop.
BESIDES YOURSELF, NOBODY FUCKING CARES ABOUT YOUR FEAR OF FALLING IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER MAN AGAIN!!!
You should contact admin and suggest new options about proof of identity since you feel so strongly about it. The decision of how people identify themselves here is not yours to make because this is not your site.
To reiterate, just because you say it doesn’t make it true.
Talk to admin If you would like to change the policies of this site. You do not have the authority to do so.
And you just don't understand the numbers. Real revenge porn is rare and usually easily spotted. Those profiles mostly upload, plaster real names all over and go post somewhere else. If someone keeps chatting pretending to be female it's usually not a revenge porn, just some wanker getting who knows what out of it. And they mostly use internet photos with made up name which is copyright violation at best, not photos of someone they actually know and have grudge against or use their real name. And recently they more and more often use AI generated images which can't even be a copyright violation.
You claim you are real deal yet you told me that you would not prove yourself to other members and this is a quote from your message - "no way I would share an identifiable photo with the nut jobs on this site" and just now you suggested that it should be made by those very "nutjobs".
So, I assume you are just trolling and therefore I will withdraw myself from this discussion.
The verification process we use now is not perfect, but, it does work most of the time, and why would anyone want more than that? Your “system” would probably work too, but, it’s too cumbersome, too complicated and too time consuming, and, at the end, as everyone has told you so far, it can be defeated.
Your opinion of " they're easy to spot" is not a vindication for them existing.
18 out of how many members?? Hardly a democracy is it? It's ridiculous for any of you to even consider that you're really any different to an "unverified" member. Again, I revert to this faux opinion that you're more genuine than Joe Bloggs that creates a profile.
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What do you think we were talking about?
but they are not getting my verification documents.
Some people have careers to worry about. Nude pictures can ruin a career.
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